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Laugh till u drop @_*

Moral Story

The story goes like this..

A man feared his wife wasn't hearing as well as she used to and he thought she might need a hearing aid. Not quite sure how to approach her, he called the family Doctor to discuss the problem. The Doctor told him there is a simple informal test the husband could perform to give the Doctor a better idea about her hearing loss.

"Here's what you do," said the Doctor, "stand about 40 feet away from her,
and in a normal conversational speaking tone, see if she hears you. If not, go to 30 feet, then 20 feet, and so on until you get a response."

That evening, the wife is in the kitchen cooking dinner, and he was in the den. He says to himself, "I'm about 40 feet away, let's see what happens."

Then in a normal tone he asks, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
No response.
So the husband moves to closer to the kitchen, about 30 feet from his wife and repeats, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Still no response.
Next he moves into the dining room where he is about 20 feet from his wife and asks, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Again he gets no response so;

He walks up to the kitchen door, about 10 feet away. "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Again there is no response.
So he walks right up behind her. "Honey, what's for dinner?"

"James, for the FIFTH time I've said, CHICKEN!"

Moral of the story:
The problem may not be with the other one as we always think - could be
very much within us..!
SO don't always blame others for the things that you may lack.

Working late?

I guess u have read about this. But just to refresh what u have read.

Mens rules

Please note... these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!

Breasts are for looking at and that is why we do it. Don't try to change that

Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

Saturday = sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way

Crying is blackmail

Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
JUST SAY IT!

‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question

If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us & You have enough clothes & too many shoes

When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine, Really

If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done
Not both
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself

Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials

If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that

If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle

Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as:
Sex,
Sport, or
Cars

Most of the Most

Most Expensive Countries to Live in Rank Country
1 Japan "not bad, Asia country in first ranking"
2 South Korea
3 Russia
4 Taiwan
5 Norway
6 Hong Kong
7 Switzerland
8 Denmark
9 Argentina
10 China
11 Finland
12 Cote d'Ivoire
13 United States
14 Sweden
15 Venezuela
16 United Kingdom
17 Singapore
18 Oman
19 Jordan
20 Kuwait

mm..M'sia is not so expensive afterall..no wonder the johor cab driver told me
"If m'sian dun work, they still can live. But if s'porean dun work, they will die"
Ahem..digest it.


Source: CIA World Factbook

RelieF...

Finally, i've got my S'pore driving license. They will send the photo driving licence within a month's time. I was given the temp slip which i can drive with it. Hell of a process but just glad it was finally done and over.

Now, left with two outstandings:
(1) Renew passport. 7th July
If successfully processed. i can collect within the next 10 days.

(2) renew re-entry permit in new passport
After i've got my passport, have to make a trip to Renew the re-entry permit.

Tmw lights installation. Will take new photos of my new home. Most of the things are done.

I have took 2 hours nap today. Shiok. I dun have the habit to take nap but today too tired cos yesterday night i drink coffee and ended up cant sleep, stay widely awake till 2am. Today got up early to do the licence conversion.
So today's nap is to catch up my yest sleepssss..

LaoGong.. Kanbate !!
He has been working from 8am to nearly 10pm since back from leave. His work will never finish. Sometimes i really feel lucky as till to-date my job always has lots of free time and dun have to work till late hours.

Feel tired for him. take care for me k !!

LicenCing !!!

This is how i spent my 1 week holidays. I felt even tired than go to work.

Monday supposed to get the conversion letter from JPJ. Yong drove us to JPJ. But, i dun have my M'sia IC cos the MHC took my IC for the Marriage cert. so begging the officer to let me thru with my international passport. After explaing to few officer, finally they said ok. BUT Guess what, i found out i lost my Driving licence. The one with picture gone missing !!! the one with the extension still there. But i cant proceed without the picture licence. The office was suggesting me to re-do the licence on the spot with fine RM20. But Im just cant believe i've lost my picture licence !! the night before i still took it out and put it in my wallet compartment for today. so, i decided to go home n search one round.

Bad luck indeed. i cant find it. mum said must report police. make me worried what will people do if they pick up my licence. maybe they change my picture to use it ? maybe they rob some bank n drop my licence on the scene ? or murder someone and drop my licence on the spot ?? all kind of imagination.

But then, busy with renovation. Tuesday burnt with the house reno stuff. Glad to see my cabinets all buiding up.

Wednesday, had lunch with JL then i went to collect marriage certs at MHC. finally got back my m'sia IC. and get appointment number to renew my international passport. the date is 7th July (friday) i took leave on 3rd July(Monday) since 2nd july taking pictures, tot maybe tired. but since the appointment date is friday. so i sms boss asked him to switch my leave date. luckily he agreed. so i shall forgo the monday leave n take it on friday to renew passport instead. The renew charges is $130 .. mm.. m'sia is Rm300. but the waiting time is 10 days in s'pore. msia side, my mum said can get the passport in 1 day.

After that, went to change the lights at Bugis. then went gym.

so, thursday (today), decided to settle my licence in johor. Morning went down to Johor. Somehow, i tot of going bck to meleka. But after some tots, i guess it will take much longer time to go home than settle in johor. So, i dropped by the nearby police station to find out if i have to make a report for my lost licence.
The police officer said no need, just go direct to JPJ to make new one.

so i got on a cab that happened to passed by the police station. Malay uncle. he charged me RM13 for the trip. So we sort of have some conversation on my mishap. After talking awhile, we started talking abt m'sia-S'pore people behaviour.He got so worked-up when he told me his experience with some s'poreans. said they r arrogant n no respect to people's country as they come to johor n said m'sia no standard .. blahh.. i was like.. err.. ok.. dun have to be so angry. cos in many ways, m;sia really lack of this little something. At least my journey felt short as we are engaged in conversation.

Managed to get my new license and the conversion letter in about 11/2 hours time (of course, most of it are waiting time). But, what a relief that at least i've gotten my new licence. Jumped into the cab waiting outside JPJ. he wanted Rm14. i told him Rm13. n he said ok. indian uncle. we din talk much. Just short one. Also about S'pore n m'sia stuff. but he seemed more open minded and not conservative abt the changes in msia.

Wonder why the cab driver all can know im from s'pore. i tried my best to speak malay with them. still they know im going city square. the Indian uncle knows where im going even before i told him.

Back to s'pore before noon. went direct to Bt Gombak to convert licence. GUESS WHAT the lady said need documents/old passport to prove that i was a student at the time i obtained my driving licence !!! I was like "HUH??' Is this one of the required document ? it is not stated in ur conversion form ?? how do you expect me to produce anything at that very moment ? old passport ? who keep old pssport anyway ? so she said produce school certificates !! damn. I was so angry. cos i queued for nearly 45 minutes and i cant do it. i have to come back another trip. I wanted to speak to her supervisor. but she said 2pm. I was too hungry to wait till 2pm.i haven eaten my lunch !! darn so have to come back tmw.

So pray hard tmw i can have my conversion done. smoothly.

SiX monThs more ^o^

Time fliess.counting down.6 months to go.

mm.. i guess too early to count down. hee..

background colour

I scew up the colour. Forgot to save before changing and now it becomes green.. neeway, lazy to modify, wait till i have the mood to adjust it !!

Bear with it.

GSS..KiLLeR

I've got myself few items today. GSS really empty my pocket

(1) Cold wear. White one.

(2) working bag. beige colour.

(3) bras. Green & black

(4) JL bought 2 working pants

So in total, for the month of June itself, i've got the above and also

(5) 3 pairs of covered shoes

(6) 2 skirts. beige & black from bysi

(7) 1 tube dress from bysi too

(8) 1 pyjamas & 3 panties from Blush!

(9) 1 wedding photo album

For our house, we have bought
(1) Lights for whole house & 4 fans. Including cabling we have spent nearly 3k !!!

(2) settle the hoob & hop

(3) house painting. now JL can recite the paint colour name whenever he sees one.
we have crack our head for the colours.really.

(4) tuesday will get the curtain quotation.

(5) Tuesday & wednesday, carpentry will be up, including kitchen & study cabinet,toilet cabinet, bomb shelter mirror, wardrobe & shower screen.

Things to be done for the house after the above:

(1) decide the location of toiletries by this weekend

(2) Look for dining table & buy the wooden rack from ikea

(3) arrange for delivery for sofas & bed & oven

(4) buy a small table for JL's pet <-- The Three eatable fish (one blind one) & few other colourful fish.my gold fish will come soonnn.

(5) buy fridge + washing machine

The list continuesss...

Not forgetting JL's new phone.still deciding M1 or SingTel. but most likely SingTel.

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

A friend send me this article. I find it rather meaningful


DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with
your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked
their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a
completely natural and spontaneous experience.

You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in
love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the
imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing
there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But
after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the
natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when
it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,
drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you
think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between
the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry
the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for
fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is
the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a
friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this
dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not
saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a
few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it
day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of
love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your
marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your
relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...
you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

My 1 weEk HoliDays..

such a long boring weeek.. finally it's over and my holidays begins now.. woallalallalalalaa.. so excited !!!

Mum n sis going Taiwan in August !! how i wish i could go.. 7 days trip !! darn !! im trying to save more money for my bigger trip !! so i shall bear with it..!! Tahannnnn !!1

sob sob ..*_* still i wanted to tag along !!@_#.. crying my hearts out..
Our ladies trip to shanghai was 2 years ago.. it was fun and mum enjoyed the trip very much . that was the first long trip for mum after my father's departures.. mum was depressed for few months..Gladly, after the trip, she seems cheerful n see life in a different way.. life without my father..

Col sent me his Europe trip photos.. so beautiful..his Europe route was..
London --> Belgium-->germany-->Armsterdam -->Switzerland(Lucern)-->London

The pictures of my col with his wife look so lovely !!
mm..i started to imagine my own trip now.I will definitely take loads of pictures...
But, i haven got myself a camera !!!!!! sigh.. all not prepared.. contiki hasn't send the brochures. lousy. so many weeks since i applied!!!
I guess im too lazy to plan for my trip, alternative is to engage the tour package and let them plan, we just pay n follow n enjoy ourself..
poeple like me lack of the sense of direction, so unless JL willing to do the planning else got to follow tour package.. easier..

1/2 a year to go ....my home is almost completing..tmw will go n take few snaps..EXCITED !!

WoaLalallalalala....

B@ss on compliance leave till next wednesday.. so we are in Free & easy mode.. long coffee break..surf net..CC even use one of the 50 inch plasma to display our D&D photos.. huaaa.. how nice if can watch movie on the plasmas..

Jeff back from his 2 weeks leave..as usual his look spoil my day..my Monday.. he is giving the "very" stress n troubled look AGAIN.. SO VERyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy irritating.. dun feel like talking to him..

How i wish to walk into the office and see some smilling faces on Monday morning.. tat's so important to start the 5 working daysss u know... tskk... lousy mood..lousy cols.. lousy people..

neeway..still got to explain stuff to him.. those work i've done during his absence and his follow ups..after that i just spent the rest of the time trying hard to digest the reading material boss left to me.. which suppose to enhance my knowledge but extremely dry n boring topics...yawnnn my way to lunch...

4 more days..i shall bear with this.. Friday pay day.. yipee.. JL said weekend John little has 20% off can shop for vitamins, skin care products..n new bras.. heeee..

Oh yeah.. i found Blush! panties real good.. very very comfy and i decided to get their pyjamas..now blush! on offer.. grab while you can !!

LCD...WHich iS bEttA ???

WorDL CUp.. You watch football.. I shop for TV

32" LIQUID CRYSTAL DISPLAY (LCD)


(1) Samsung

32" LCD TV(/Li)

16:9 Aspect Ratio

500 cd/m2 Brightness

5000:1 Dynamic Contrast Ratio Wide Viewing Angle 178°/178°

10-Bit Signal Processing

The salesman said Samsung LCD was now assembled in M'sia

(2) Panasonic

Multi System (17 system) V-Real Technologies (Processor & Driver)

HD ready with 2 x HDMI input, 1080i & High Definition panel

1366 X 768 pixel HD panel (XGA panel), 16:9

1200:1 contrast ratio

8 msec response speed

Nicam/Stereo, Fastext

Multi Window (PAT)

LCD AI

1 way, 2 speakers surround (10W x 2)

Power Consumption 168W

Power supply: AC 100-240V, 50/60Hz

Salesman said assemble in China..quality wise..(u know i know).. now offer, get a dig camera & $300 robinson voucher.. so tempting


Some says LG is considerable.. Sony is good but price range is higher..another hard to decide item..

WintEr ClothIng..

GSS.. best time to grab whatever u wish with better price...i've bought 3 pairs of shoes.. 2 new skirts, 1 new dress, 1 album (65% discount, i really really think the cashier made a mistakes, precious totz only have 15% off but she gave me 65%..muahhh)..1 sweet photo frame (bought today).. i think i need a working bag..this will be my this week mission...

My next big-buy will be winter clothing, as we decided to go Europe next year.. gotta get some cold wear, guess now is the best-er time..i kinda like this white one..but JL said i look like pregnany woman cos it's lengthy , i tot it will warm me better since it covers more ?!?.. hard to decide...mm..



JL gonna upgrade his handphone, those with camera.. finally he go for camera phone..hoo.. i will make his storage fill with my pictures..heee..

NAiLsss FevEr

I've been working hard..pat on my shoulder for my "good work"
For the past 2 weekends including this weekend i've been sacrifinng my time in office..was sick last week but still manage to go to work without mc.. n manage to survive till today..next week will be my last 5 days work.. then it'll be my turn to be on-leave !!!..yes baby.. 1 week....no more weekends in officeeeeeeee...

VerY tired.. still coughing.. i really admire the energy i have, i can still go gym, shopping, deciding on house renovation details n all..pheww..

Recently, been eying at my contractor's nail..she is a very fashionable lady, a young mother of two but she looks like any other young ladies out there.. she likes to paint her nails and changes the pattern every time we meet her..

It happened that last week, some ad-hoc stalls setup at Tampines mall selling the nails/manicure stuff attacted my attention during my weekend working day lunch time, i've got my self 3 sets of nails stickers..and the outcome... (taken by my K700i, not so clear..)



i guess with a bit more of practises, i'll be good.. heee.. Jen is trying out using the nail colours pen.. but a bit hard to do it on right hand since we r right handed..neeway, fun stuff to play with..

OnZ !!!!

Col went to HK for a week for implementation. So i finally on my own and glad to know that im doing fine. All requests are completed without errors and problems. Somehow, im proud of myself :)

Boss finally agreed with my suggestion to change my 2 days course to 3 days course as the 2 days course is cancelled !!

Damn it.. always got cancelled.. hopefully no cancelling for the new course..then i can have 3 days "holidays" muahhhhh....

2 more days to go..time for me to pick up as much as possible. and prove to myself that i can do it independently !!!!

Having stiff neck since monday !! till now im having muscle aching on my shoulder.. sigh...got to start exercise to relax muscle...it's been more than a week since i last jog in gym !! lazy bugs all around me...

now reading Memoir of Geisha...so far the story is very much like what is in the movie..

My AUnT.. SweEt..

Reminded by my 9th aunt to send my ROM pics to my other aunties who are now in overseas.

So far, only 2 of my aunts that im keeping in touch (via email most of the time)

(1) 9th aunt (beh kor aka youngest aunt)
location: Johor going to Melaka after she built her house there

she is the one supported me through my years in University.Always so warmth and helpful to all her friends.Very ang mo style.
After staying with her n my uncle (swedish), i've decided not to have ang mo bf (I used to fancy having a ang mo bf cos their physical features attracts me)
But im really not so fond of their style of talking/doing thing.. jst not my style..
I still prefer chinese, who know my culture, my customs and speak some singlish.. heee

(2) 6h Aunty (aunty KT)
location: London

She was scholar, studied in London and married there. Warmth lady as well but so far i only met her less than 3 times. I almost went over to study for A levels, mum objected.

I always wonder how will i turn out to be if i were to further my studies in London ?? maybe im a lawyer now ? cos all my cousins who went over to further their studies ended up becoming lawyer..

Neeway, sometimes, life is meant to be this way, fated not there means not there, so here i am.. contented and satisfied.

Little note from aunty KT which i find it sweet to keep in my blog :)

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Ng Wong
Date: May 11, 2006 3:19 AM
Subject: RE: My ROM Pictures 03/04/2006
To: leehuei.lim@gmail.com


How lovely!!! I spent a good hour looking at those photos. LeeHuei, you
looked absolutely stunning!! Your dress is beautiful and of course,
happiness does add to one's beauty. Your mother and sister looked happy in
there too. Last, but most important, is of course your husband. He looks a
very happy man who has married the right and good girl. His face shows him
to be happy. Congratulations to you both and thank you for thinking of us
and of sharing your lovely photos with us. I forwarded them to your other
cousins....Kah Ling, (2nd auntie's daughter) and my sons, Martin, Min and
Paul. I'll also forward them to Chee Ying (2nd uncle's (Poh Chye) daughter.
Hope they, in turn will forward to others. Hope to see you in June. Cheers
and take care,
love, Auntie K.T.



*PS* chee ying is my cousin whom i only remembered her look more than 20 years back during her mum's funeral. she is my brother's age, wonder how is she.

So muCh to Register

Jen informed that after getting married in S'pore with s'pore spouse, as m'sian i still have to announce the marriage to the high commission of m'sia. likewise, if u n spouse (both m'sian) n got married in m'sia, you need to announce ur marriage in ROM if u both intended to continue stayin n working in S'pore..

The reason to register to M'sia side for my case if to prevent any troubles from m'sia side if next time, given the scenario, u want to bring ur child to hometown for a longer period or similar cases. and as Jen only found out abt this 1 year later, she was fined. so she advised me to settle this at the high commission before the 1 year period. anyway, the process just costs rm20 bucks but the trouble is to sacrifice a day off to submit this n that , fill this n that forms..and sign by both husband n wife.

so, i planned to clear my marriage week (1 week, must be cleared within 3 months after ROM) in June to do all these:
(1) register the marriage to M'sia side which can be done at high commission of
m'sia in m'sia side.
(2) go down to JPJ with Yong to get the letter to convert to s'pore license..
(3) renew passport, expiring in Nov

So lazy to online at home these days, wanna rest my eyes more.. see too much of pc screen in work.. going blind...

ProgReSsss..

today managed to do the daily tasks as planned. compile this month training to boss n proposed my roles and responsibilities as i try to streamline the scopes btw my col n myself..minimize overlapping.. but he din reply my mail..

he has been in "WEIRD" mood lately n this happen ever since im back from my ROM leave..not much verbal communication nowadays, just emails..anyway, im too fed-up to care anymore.. so long im learning what i plan to learn..have lunch kaki.. have salary monthly..im satisfied.. luckily im not too demanding.. muahhh

today go n re-pick wedding gown again, cos i change my mind of the previously chosen gown..Jen went with us as she is on 2nd shift. ended up i chose two wedding gowns n remain my super pinky cheong-sam/t-dress look alike dress.. so i will have 3 gowns to swap on the wedding dinner.. now am thinking.. will i have the energy to change so many timesss?? so.. got to re-think of how i wanna arrange for the gown on that night..

monday holiday.. Yipeeeee.. looking forward to it.. Happy Labour day to all.. we need a good rest after 5 months of hard work.. +_+

WorK woRk..

mm.. this morning, the first thing i do is to tell my col to let me do the morning task.. heeee.. but guess what.. when i send the email out, he too send another similar one.. feel like throwing shoes to him.. what the heck !!! he really cant let go is it ????

so, my next step will be compiling all the lesson i've learnt and email boss to ask boss specify job scopess.. else it is tiring to everyday telling my col to "LET ME DO THE JOB" sickening..

From the system requirements, seems like sat 1/2 is a must to come back for data bckup, for Bi-Key updates, for manual restart of the gateway.. mm.. shall negotiate with boss so that this can be done alternately with this col..

i can see brighter path ahead !!! tmw i shall again remind him
"LET ME DO THE WORK !!!"

One MonTh oF TuTorinG

Started the mentoring in 4th or 5th April.. now coming to end of month... i have learnt quite a fair bit..but my col just refused to let go his work to let me take over.. sighh.. i guess all the older employee's mindset is to hold tightly to whatever they r good at..else it will be taken away by younger col..

Anyway, i will definitely fight for my "rights" to get what im assigned to do.. boss wanted me to backup him esp during his absence, he is going to Hk for a week for some project, thus, boss expect me to be competent to take over his task..

i would suggest he let me do the work and he monitor for my progress, if anything not right, he can point out.. isn't it better ??

so, i guess this is the only way to get my hands dirty on the work.. else i'll forever be watching him doing the work n not getting the chance to do it..

must pester him to let me do it.. sigh.. people is try not to do the work.. me ? i sk for it.. ghaaaa..

Ikea-Ing.. -_-

Been eying on the curtain on offer this weekdays..choose to go down after work on the first day of promotion ..excitedly.. planning to buy for our new home's balcony sliding glass door curtain (inner layer) as this is the lacing curtain and 3m in length



UNEXPECTEDLY, when we went down, we cant find the curtain that was suppose to be on promotion.. checked with the promoter.. and guess what.. "SOLD OUT" damn.. ON THE FIRST DAY OF THE OFFER AND IT IS SOLD OUT AND NO MORE FOR THE REST OF THE WEEKDAY?!??!?!?!? so disappointed.. all the picture image in my mind of how the curtain look like in my balcony door..all gone...just like that.. feel cheated..

Dun have mood to look for other curtains cos the oeefr price of $9 per 2 pc still linger in mind.. all other prices are was too expensive.. sob sob..

so, again, empty handed from Ikea..sigh.. but we spotted some study room design that we like.. took picture of it.. and of course being warn by the storekeeper.. ghaa.a. i took some with my phone.. lallalala.. n the dressing table design is simple.. just the way i like.. guess.. my new home will have many ikea design.. including those ratan chest.. those small vase.. those mirror.. those lights.. those racks.. those flower pots.. those tables... kiakiakiakiakia....

X-ComApny UpdAtes

Heard from one of my x-col (on-site engineer) that my x-company will be offshoring the solution centre to India (darn, indians r taking aways all our jobsss), so they r now waiting for company to offer them with other positions or look for other jobs elsewhere..

As for other c-cols who moved to agilent, r impacted with the offshoring, as they r on contract, thus, no more contract for the support, they too have to look for jobs elsewhere.. so far, i heard only one got job, the rest still looking i guess..

Irene was saying, Kenny n I are lucky cos our new job is not related to HP support anymore, thus no impact like my other x-cols.. phew... so after all i've made a wise choice to leave Unix team.. heeee..

Today i took nap (no my usual routine to sleep in the afternoon ) but after morning workout n go back to office, im tired maybe.. so i slept from 2 plus till 5 plus.. hoo.. cool..n i dun have any dicturbance from dreams.. total 3 hours of sleep. i hope i can still sleep tonight..

WeeKend..buSy Oooo..

Today have few appointments..with bank, with contractor n with bridal shop

First, Amro courier sent thec credit card documents to sign.. another credit card to apply.. nowadys credit card is too common, ah dog, ah cat also have..

Secondly, meet renovation contractor at new house, check for any defects..taken many pictures when we stepped into the house, JL even took video introducing each entrance of the house including me..
The contractor came n check, no defects, no cracks, he seemed surprise as some units at other blocks have lots of tile cracking. our toilet door is new, n the tiles all in good condition, kicthen tiles in good form too..so after discussing what we proposed to have on the renovation and we shall meet up after they came out with the 3D design.. also mean money paying time..

Third, look for mattress..but, not getting what we want, so we head to the last appointment of the day --> gown choosing.. we took 3 hours to get my wedding gown + dinner gown, and less than 30 minutes for JL's two suits.. heeee..

My gown is quite sexy as the stomach portion is transparent n bare back n it has super wide spread tails....n the dinner gown will be layering with lace n tube type.. i look sexy n elegance.. ghaaaa.....now left the photo taking in July..

Next week, we will be busy with the house renovation, on the design we want and also the furnitures..excited and enjoy the process of building up our home sweet home.. now i can go n o o .. sweet dreammmssss

I nEeD moRe CalCium....

I got to cut cut cut down on coffee consumption.. i drink too much coffee till i can still sleep n yawn n yawn n yawn after drinking coffee.. no effect anymore.. n i don't take enough milk/soya bean or any calcium related food..

so i've decided to cut down on coffee.. the most one cup per day.. morning i will drink milk.. just bought one packet of chocolate Anlene milk powder..n will tryyyyyy my best to eat more milk related food like cheese/yogurt/what else?? blank.. what other food with calcium...

Maybe if i stop coffee.. i will have whiter teeth.. blink blink.. remind me to see dentist..haven extract my wisdom teeth..so much things to do.. but im just too lazy to get it done..my study table is starting to pile up again...something inside me is telling me to tidy but physically i just cant seem to do it.. lazinessssssssss...

Get oVer wiTH...

mm..enough of my ROM.. i purposely dun add new blog cos i want the first thing i see when come to my blog is my ROM pic.. heeee.. so niceee.. ghaaaaa.. thick skin really.. but i just cant help it.. see the photos so many times still like to see..i'll get over it soon.. i hope.. kekkekee

Saw sue's blog on her new hair style..so tempting.. i haven cut short hair for many years now.. been keeping my hair at least at/over shoulder length cos i like to tie my hair up.. make me look "younger".. ahem.. yeah age is catching up..so youth look is very important now..neeway.. i quit dying hair now..i've been dying hair for years and decided not to dye this year (new year resolution maybe) just dun feel like having too much colour on my hair, not easy to maintain as when hair starts to grow, need to re-dye again n again.. but when see others dying.. i felt tempted..grrrrr.... so indecisive.. but till now i haven dye.. so i guess i've get over hair dying too..

work has been .."weird".. cos boss seems to be angry with me on something which i dunno what.. ever since i came back from my ROM leave, he eacted this way.. somehow.. i suspected he angry cos i din tell him i ROM ? but i din tell/invite other cols too..plan to only invite them to my wedding dinner.. so now he dun lunch with me.. dun communicate verbally , use email instead.. n cols start asking me why.. and i was like .. " im puzzled too.. but what the heck.. im here to work.. not to see boss face to live my life.." so i'll get over this as well.. soon..

what else i'll get over ? oh yeah the jerk sister of mine.. anyway.. i'll get over it too.. cos i think if she intends to make my life difficult.. be with it..cos at the end.. it will be she herself who is "difficult" by thinking of how to make other's life difficult.. complicated as it seems.. but that's life..i have better things to think and do that be in her game to make me angry.. what the heck..

So my this month resolution is to get over things that i haven get over..

JL + LH ROM 03/04/06

Our Wedding Vows

I promise to love you, honour you, comfort you and
keep you in sickness and in health and
forsaking all others,
be faithful to you
so long as we both shall live...

< no personal photo sharing anymore >

REASON, SEASON or a LIFETIME

I find these meaningful..

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON:

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty,to provide you with guidance and support, to aid youphysically, emotionally or spiritually.
(or for you to offer the same FOR or to THEM).
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A SEASON:
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real.But only for a season.

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A LIFETIME:
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Back...

Haven online from home for some time..cos lazy.. always see PC at work.. wanna let my eyes rest..

In the midst of reading another Dan Brown's book.. but again.. not really that exciting as da Vinci.. so been holding it for more than a week still cant finish.. Col finished Da Vinci and gotten the same conclusion as me.. actually it's a treasure hunt to no where.. so i guess i wont read more of his book unless good comment..

m.. what have i been doing for the past 2 weeks..Jenny called up and she n husband will be coming to S'pore as his husband will be posted to s'pore.. so i have one buddy here.. her baby will be coming over too..

been very keen on furnitures/electrical appliances/renovation for my new home..still in the process of gathering our minds on what style n design we want...

Been very fed-up with Jeff as he is throwing his misc work to me.. n we've been wondering.. what has he been doing since i have done most for him ?!?!?!?.. jerk !!!

Hopefully i will go for course in May as approved by bosses..lalla.. after that my training should be started..cos i really need to concentrate on swift..this is my Y2006 resolution to be actively involved in swift....

Da vIncI codE.. The eND..

i've finished reading.. but the ending a bit.. errr.. catch no ball..

what is it actually that he found ?? What is "The truth" ?? no map... no treasure or anything ?? just the few last lines guiding him to the place where the grave of Mary Magdalene was ? so what is it about the Holy Grail

chasing for the truth and at the end this is what i get.. mm.. a bit disappointed..apa lahh..

I wonder how will the story be in movie.. maybe will get a clearer picture by visualising it instead...

But it's not encouraging knowing that Tom Hank will be "Robert Langdon"..
Tom Hank not good looking and i cant see his charm.. im stuck with his image in Forrest Gump.. that ah gong...no motivation to watch....

TiRed ALL da TimE..

been feeling tired.. not sure is it b'cos i've been exercising for few days consecutively or b'cos i've used up too much brain power or my body is givin signal tat im not healthy..

i take multi-vitamins.. i eat.. i drink fruit juice.. i try to drink as much water..i exercise.. what else ?? still im feeling tired easily..i sleep.. but i still have dark ring..

dyinggggg.....

GaLs GatHEriNg..

Finally after so many months.. we gathered for dinner... my treat as i promised to buy them meal after my confirmation n pay rise..too bad master cant join us..

like usual.. catching up on their life.. not much though.. just some casual chit chat n get to know meilin + suh will be going to japan for holidays in April..n meilin finally said she wants to find bf this year as one of her Y2006 resolution and to change job..

jia still looking for new job..suh happy with her current job..and seems like she has been busy with acticities..not sure what activities.. maybe movie watching or something.. she prefers to keep it secretive..

mm....not much such gathering nowadays as we all busy with our own lives...all the best to my three gal friends whom accompanied me during my U days.. without them life will be bored...

It'S ovER...

i've been enjoying my 3 days of the week.. doing my own stuff.. surfing net for home design..making appointments for dentist.. for bridal gown.. confirming French class registration details...apply credit cards..helping sis n her col to apply credit card..searching for books.. anything but work....

tmw boss back to work.. sob sob.. prepare for lots of work waiting ahead...i've done what i think should be done during his absence.. so hopefully tmw he wont ask for something out of the blue again...daaaaa.. anyway if he ask.. just do it lorrr..

school holidays parents take turn to take leave..wonder y he dun take few weeks off..we will be all enjoy our working day....ghaaaa.. however nice ur boss is.. there is still pressure when he is around..

two more weeks... i'll be Mrs.Ong.. still cant believe i've come to this stage of my life..commited wholeheartedly to one man..

a col told me, the moment when asked to look into each other's eye and said "i Do" and sign.. u will surely hesitate for a moment or even hand shiver...

mm.. i dun agree with him... anyway.. i told him i will tell him about that after my ROM...as i strongly believed i will not have any hesitation in signing or committed to my darling.. else we wont have come this far in the first place...

Love you dear..

W@rK hArd or HarDLy WoRk..

siann... today DR.. working again.. actually nothing much to do.. dunno y must go back.. so.. basically im working 6 days a week now for consecutively 6 weeks...im starting to admire the energy running in me that can hold that long....

Luckily im paid to go back..not much work but hang out more than work...siaoooo....i hope this weekend i can finally rest at home on sunday.. phewwwww..cos the sunday after that will have power diversion again.. damnnnn....

I must treat myself for my hardwork on sundaysss.. i decided to buy something for myself.. haven tot of what to buy .. anyway.. no time to shop now... i haven got my shoes for my ROM.. sob sob.. this weekend must go n buy..

Da Vinci Code..

Heard about this book for some time.. col always try to get from library but always taken by others..

so happened to talk abt it on our way home in train with boss.. he said he bought for his son..so he can lend it to me..

so. now im reading "Da Vinci Code".. not sure whether it's really that good.. cos im not sure what it is about anyway.. just started yesterday.. something abt this professor or lecturer.. n some murder case which needed his expertise to investigate ?? shall continue n fine out more..

DA vinCi-ng....

W@rK harD.. PlaY haRdeR..

graph.. chart.. statistics.. darn.. been staring at the bar chart for days.. changes after changes.. never ending..im going blind..purposely use "green" which is good for the eyes. but still im feeling so tired looking at it..

actually.. dun have much work this week..very slumber...not many meetings.. not many new thing to implement/plan.. just some here n there work...but still feeling tired..damnnnn.. im aging..

been exercising for 3 days this week.. run n run.. cos i eat n eat.. so must balance...yesterday went It show with cols.. again go geylang eat..today Crystal jade..one funny incident which i really have nothing to say..

this vendor of ours always buy us lunch whenever my boss give him projects or assignment..cos projects mean revenue to their company.. n our project usually involving lots of money.. so give n take.. boss create revenue for them.. they do thr work.. n they buy lunch.. mmm.. sounds fair ??

today.. like usual.. we have some proposed project to kick off.. so she came in.. n after discussion, as usual.. she buy lunch.. n while lunching.my boss received an sms..and when he looked at it.. he has this very shock expression..but he din say anything.. so.. we din ask much..vendor phone ring and she excused herself to listen to her phone call outside.... boss told us(jeff n i).." she sent sms wrongly to me.. she intend to send to her boss but maybe press too fast n send to me.."
when she came back, she ask boss for permission to allow one of her customer to visit our data centre.." . well.. boss said ok.. cos he know she buy lunch with intention...

after the lunch, while she is paying.. boss show us the sms
" the man is asking for free lunch again,im sure after this free lunch he will agree with customer visit"

hooooooooooooooooo.............i felt so embarass for the vendor for making such a mistake to customer...well.. my boss know this is a kind of business handshake.. give n take.. so.. no need to entangle over such sms...

this remind me to always careful when sending sms.. click wrongly that's it.. n people will forever have bad impression towards u...

W@rk On SUndAysSsssss..

super demoralising..before confirmation, i can claim $20 per hour.. so 8 hours means $160.. now.. i got the most $72 for 8 hours work on weekends.. so demoralising...now i realise why no motivation to go work on weekends...

I've been asked to go back to work almost every sundays now.. consecutively 4 weeks in a row..most of the sundays is to go back n work with Jeff on the power stuff.. super fed-up with it already.. we r not facility guy why must be spend so much time on this stupid thing ??? get a CONSULTANT !! that's what they r for !! let them have chance to get some $$ in their pocket.. shake head

Jeff said during my absence on friday, boss angry with many issues.. and told jeff that whenim not aroudn..it's like they miss a left n right hand.. woahh.. dunno to be happy or to be sad..i still have many leaves that i plan to clear.. mm.. i still have 21 days this year.. muahhh.... cant believe i have so much leaves till im a bit overwhelm with how to spend them.. muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh......


today, call ngee koon while waiting for power reading updates.. she sounded the same..i called her cos i din reply her sms yest so just say hello lor.. she said she will be goin to UK for a vacation as her fren is posting there for few months..cool.. then after our conversation.. she sms said she broke off with Dennis but she is fine.. heee.. i din touch on this part during our conversation.. maybe she sense that i have reason to call her ? ghaaa.. clever ger.. anyway.. i told her to have fun and share her pictures from UK trip..

then Iris sms.. asked to meet up on 18th (sat) for dinner.. just gals outing..it's been so long though..after she left HP n after we left HP.. abt 2 years already since i meet up with her.. very cute ger..so seems like we shall have our girl's chit-chat time again.. we have lots to ke-po.. 4 gals..

Bk-mother, Me-getting married, Gis-looking for mr right, iris- mm.not sure status..got to find out

and i managed to call Hwee Li. she again will fly. this time to HK for dunno howmany days. cos she said just got her ticket there .. return ticket leave open as this trip is to do implementation.. u=if successful can come back soon else.. her life is very very fulfilling.. the travelling.. the $$.. the job satisfaction..she only lack the one to share her life.. hope she finds him soon.. so long not ah neh from india.. or sawadikap from bangkok.. fair, tall ,well-build man will catch her attention.. ghaaaa..

another weeekend passed...

Old FRiEnd..

dunno why i suddenly tot of her.. ngee koon an old fren during STPM time..while waiting for JL at food court.. sms her.

"Hello how r u there..Long time no see hope u r fine..nothing just say hello cos wee wen called regarding her wedding tot of ui cant go though.stay cheerful"

she then replied me
"i got ur sms but cant get the name. can you introduce urself "

fainted.. scold her..
"U laoya la never keep my phone no Im lee huei la"

she then replied
"oh.. just investigated. not that i didn't have ur no. actually saved twice.under Le huei n Lim Lee Huei, that's why name didn't appear!haiya..Me fine, u "

i din reply her.. cos my intention is just to say hello for an old friend.. heard abt her breaking off with her long-term bf during the gathering with bee bee they all in december.. wonder how she cope with the broken heart ??

But.. from what i sense during Jenny's wedding .. the bf came n pick me up and ngee koon to the dinner.. ngee koon n him really really dun look/feel like couple.. cos.. how to say.. usually couples deeply in love will very naturally cant get enough of each other.. hand holding.. hugs..kisses.. but she is like the bf ask to hold hand then she hold.. the bf ask to stay close.. then she move closer..

At first i tot.. mm.. maybe cos she shy to show ? but after the news of them breaking off.. maybe the relationship has some problem even during that time ??

sigh...we cant predict many things.. the bf n her have been together for at least 4 to 5 years ? dunno wat's the real reasons though.. just hope she is doing fine..

we used to have lots of fun together...a very cheerful n happy going fren..

OuR ShELtER..

We finally decided and applied for the flat..

now, we are waiting to get key which is expected to be within 3 months time..
we are in the progress to build our love nest..Home Sweet Home

This is the most worrying item in our list as if cant get a shelter,it'll be incomplete.. to stay separately after marriage..

Bravo to my darling for his efford in our house search..

wat's next ?!? wat else ? looking for interior designer and furnitures..hopefully we dun have to spend too much .. hopefully within our budget else.. sob sob...

Wat FriEnDs R 4 ? dEeP ToT..

well.. sometimes u really cant expect much from fried..cos the more h hope from them.. the more u will be dissapointed byt their reaction...

Have had the chatting with Suh.. grab the following:

Lee-Huei : eiii.. have u help me to ask ur condo management? that can use the swimming pool to take pic ? im taking in May
Suh Ning : not yet ... wat u need to use?
Lee-Huei : swimming pool, i wanan take underwater shooting
Suh Ning : go under water?
Lee-Huei : last time told u liao wat
Lee-Huei : aiyoooo u
Suh Ning : like that ah... dun think they allow ppl go under water w/o swim wear
Lee-Huei : chehh.. u ask already meh ?
Lee-Huei : nvm lah
Lee-Huei : i ask my boss
Lee-Huei : thks anyway
Suh Ning : every day i back office already close
Lee-Huei : it's ok
Lee-Huei : no prob
Lee-Huei : thks
Suh Ning : u ask your ever trusting boss la..chance might be higher..at least he big shot :P


really make me ponder..this is not a any request i ask.. once a lifetime thing.. that i ask for favour to check.. and she take it so lightly.. that does not matter at all, i understand that this is not so matter to her.. but being friend. i assume closer friend this is not the way u treat ur fren that is getting married ??

Well..sometimes.. this is the few time that u really get to see how a friendship can be valued..

One word.. dun just think of urself.. ur life.. cos u too one day will need others favour.. n you will feel the same when this is given back to you..

SUpEr PeTty Man..

i really really cannot stand man who is so petty over small amount of money..

my col is one of the man that i ever met that is soooo darn petty.. he complaint almost everytime that he is poor.. he got lots to pay..
but hey.. he is building a three storey house in m'sia.. n now plan to buy a car.. and with 29" lcd pc tv..
he spent his money for his own benefits (which is right) but why he has to affect or take advantage of others ??

everytime we lunch..we r "obliged" to buy him drink..almost everytime.. i wonder he wont feel "pai seh" for girl to everytime buy him drinks ? he will pretend to eat his food when people come n collect money.. or just sit there n of course being coutersy i will ask what he want.. n happily he "order"..

today too.. as usual.. he sit n he order.. n he said im automatic to oder.. wah laoo.. then ???? really make me angry...such a thick skin man.. even my another col cant stand him..

So everyone except him is rich.. he is the poorest in the whole wide world ? can u believe there is such person ??

my col were saying dun buy him drink next time.. but i think if u dun buy he will just dun drink.. cos we r not so lousy until just buy our own...really "good luck" to met such a person.... open our eyess..

God bless him to have more wealth from saving from all his lunch drinkss..

NeWspaPer ReAdiNg

i have been reading newspaper almost everyday.. i dun have the habit of reading newspaper ever since i started work..why ? mm. cos no time to read ? everytime after i've done everything (eat, bath, watch tv, online..read story book) i dun always find time to finish the daily newspaper.. so i find it a waste to buy n not finish reading it..

but, i find that my boss always have topic to talk abt with anyone, everyone.. many topics i realised are from newspaper.. so that encourage me to read more and know more of what's going on..

"Today" may be good to start the day but too little compare to proper issue of newspaper.. n wat's more.. my sis get to read when i buy.. monkey..she never buy newspaper only "tumpang" read when i buy..

Jia's company is having some retrenchment exercise.. not really retrenchment as theit management is advising them to leave with no compensation.. that's really bad..especially it's a establich company..so she has been looking for job out there..hopefully she gets what she wants ( job scope + salary of course )

well.. just finger cross that i can keep my job as along as possible.. shielded under the umbrella of my boss..he has been sick.. wonder if i should buy him some coughing solution.. cos when his cough continues.. we are at risk of getting cough cos u can imagine how the bacterias spread in the stuffy air-con space..

i seldom get sick now.. maybe cos i exercise ?? touch wood.. dun say later tmw sick..

MaRch-ING

2 more days..goodby February and welcome March...

ML finally coming back to s'pore.. 1 year in China and she keep saying cant wait to come back.. but i guess it's an eye opening to work and live in an environment other than ur home town n s'pore ? a very adventurous experience..

mm.. i guess for my current job.. there is no such posting..travel may still have chance.. anyway, im not looking for job/posting else where as im settling down..
If im still single, i think i will definitely tot of such opportunities..but this does not come earlier so forget it..

Yesterday, we went down to book ROM lunch at Masonic, western style with long table set-up.. quite cool..
JL said not everyday we get to lunch at Masonic( it's a club that only hold special function, one of it, is ROM lunch/dinner)..

so Masonic it will be..i like the place..wonder if they will setup with flowers n all.. magazines pic is very nice..

Then, we went down to Sengkang to hunt for our house..hot weather.. almost "chao ta", got to be aunty and use umbrella.. heee..
Hopefully the units we wanted still available..finger cross..

This is getting excited n fun.. the whole marriage thing..

This is also the time when i get to see the side of him that i dun usually see..
pat tor and go-out is different than getting together to prepare the details of the life that we r going to share soon...

he can be so detail in his preparation.. all the map.. all the layout.. units..directions...so proud of him...100% bonus for him on this..
this shows how important this is to him ? that he care a lot...

sometimes it makes me ponder.. man always say being woman is always better.. as man always take care of everything.. woman just there to say "yes" or "no"..how true is it ? i guess woman nowadays have more say ? not just yes or not.. but "like" or "dislike".. any diff ? ghaaaa

MuakkSsSSss.. HUgSsSSSSsssS.. for my Darling's effort..support each other to get what we want..

W.E.E.K fiNIsH aka W.E.E.K EnD

lallallaa happy happy.. weekend coming..weekend coming..dunno what have i been busy with.. but this week feel like so long.. maybe cos not busy that's why feel that ?

many shops stil with offer.. tot of buying some dress..cos when want to buy cant see any nice one or no offer.. when not preparing to buy will see many nice one on offer.. so i've learnt through experience.. to buy during offer for nice one.. smart huh..

i think more or less i know what im gonna buy for my ROM favour.. colourful bear bear then i shall put some personalise notes on it..not cheap each.. but i find it nice to let my guest (all relatives) to have something as keepsake for our day.. sweet.. ghaa.a. im always sweet.. heeee..


will only post the photos after my ROM.. else no surprise..

Been searching on camera with col.. i think more likely will go for canon again, reason being
(1) i can reuse my battary & SD memory card
(2) now offer only $649 with free 512 SD memory card + card reader + casing +
cleaning kit
(3) offer until 28th Feb

so.. shall see if tmw we have time to pop by..then im thking to repair my spoil camera some time later.. wait till i save enough money.. each month allocate $50 buck for it.. else one time pay all heartache... sobb...

My life is full of colourss.. so cant go without a camera... must have.. heeee

CAmeRa SpoIL liAO..@_^

sobbb sobbb.. sobb all the way... stupid canon camera spoil liao.. the LCD faulty le.. cant see the image from the screen.. n now even take pic also cant see the proper picture... crying my heart out... why why.. my baby camera.. my first digital camera lehh.. i spent more than SGD 800 to get him.. sobb sobbb.. still feel sad..

i think i bought it in Y2003.. after i drop my sis digital camera in Bali.. n decided to get one of my own.. and now.. it just die. just like that.. so so so sadddd... my cols said not worth reparing it cos it will be 200 plus or more.. n service charge some more le..

guess i got to get a new one liao.. this time round.. maybe i'll get sany?? mm.. got to see from the upcoming IT show....now cannot take picture le.. not proper pictures.. cos the stupid canon cam sometimes can take sometimes cannot take..

still feel sad.. sob sob....

T.U.E.S-day

tuesday is always better than monday.. for sure..morning attend a presentation..then vendor bought lunch at sakae sushi.. eat all red plates only.. ghaaa.. my boss principle.. whenever he treat we cant take red plates.. whenever vendor treat ONLY take red plates.. muahhhhhhhhhhh...

aiya.. overeat again.. JL warn me not to overeat but too late.. i already overeat.. pheww.. nvm.. do more exercise lah.. like this.. when will i be slim input=output.. no difference.. sobbb..

m'ca fren wee wen called.. wanna invite me to her wedding dinner on 25th March.. but but but.. my ROM is just a week away.. i thk i wont want to make a trip home. too tiring.. n mum will be going bangkok on 23rd n back on that weekend.. so no one at home. so i decided not to attend le..

i guess i should stay home aply mask..drink more water eat more fruits.. do more exercise to keep fit n healthy n beutiful ? ghaaaa..start to feel a bit nervous..jialat..will i have pre-marriage depression ? siao.. think too much lee

Tmw no work.. cos will attend company technical day .. should b boring.. cos will hear those big big boss sharing about our company visions.. projects in the pipeline...blahh... got many coffee break though.. n makaning session.. that's the only attractions to me..k k. shall "remember" not to overeat.. burpp... remind me of the sushi.. too much too much..

RoM gOwn...

Din take pic when im wearing it.. but manage to get one while JL is holding to it..

I look elegance in it.. cos of my height.. it has lots of laces..and the dress is actually a bit like wedding gown..with long "tail" on the floor..sweeping the floor..




now got to get a shoes to go with the dress..and of course try to loose those extra kgs.. my arm looks a bit fat...grrrrrrrrrr....

My camera is dying. dunno why at this moment then starts to give problem.. sob sob.. lao ya canon..

flower on valentine's forgot to post.. heee..ohh. my ROm bouquet will be pink roses and white "bai he" dunno wat it's called in english.. cos the theme is elegence.. ghaaaa...

LotterY CrAze..

well.. birthday ger usually brings luck ? dunno ? at least my gila cols tot so..the 4 numbers i picked "3962" & my extension "3029"

The shares below from my cols:

11 share (S$55/-)

4D on Saturday (18/2/06)
3029 - 5B

4D on Saturday (18/2/06) and Sunday (19/2/06)
3962 - 5B5S

4D on Saturday (18/2/06)
3962 - 10B10S (ibet)

4D on Sunday (19/2/06)
3962 - 5B5S (ibet)


Make me also kan chiong.. but too bad. 18th Feb (sat) bo tio.. (never strike).. so one more day .. tmw.. pray hard it strikes.. ghaaaaa... else our $5 gone into singapore pools again..

16th FeBruAry 2006

Morning suppose to go for compliance briefing.. mistaken the venue.. so go to raffles place.. then rush back to tampines.. luckily still able to make it..

Had lunch with vendor..then boss bought me 1kg b'day cake at Prima Deli..after lunch.. my cols (all guys) including my boss sang song for me.. ghaaa.. so funny to see guys(uncles some more) to sing b'day songs.. i cant help it but keep laughing..then boss gave me ang pow for my b'day.. sweet huh..

my crazy cols AGAIN.. ask me to choose 4 numbers to buy 4D.. fainted

BUT.. after that.. before i finished my b'day cake.. boss gave work..rush n rush .. change n change.. till nearly 7pm.. sob sob.. suppose to meet JL..

Took train down to town..and at city hall.. as usual very crowded..i was behind a lady waiting to get down the train when reach destination..accidentally step on her sandal.. immediately i said sorry..but opps.. her sandal strap broke.. ( am thinking.. i just step slightly.. not step and drag on it..what a lousy sandal..)

Surprisingly, she looked up and asked me "are you goin to compensate me ??"
i was stunned..huh ?? spontaneously i answered " u r the one blocking my way" and i walked off..feel angry at the way she asked me..

then while i was on the escalator.. she shouted from below (she cant move fast cos her sandal broke) "YOU IDIOT !! BROKE MY SANDAL AND NOT COMPENSATE !!"

Wah lao.. all she can think of is compensate.. really.. if her attitude is nicer.. i would have helped her to a shoes shop.. but of course she dun expect me to buy her a brand new shoes.. cos i dun thk a good condition shoes can be broken that easily.. im wearing sandals myself.. i know the difference btw a good/lousy sandal.. i guess her sandal is old n goin to give way.. n just happened that i stepped on it.. so it broke..bad timing..

i feel uneasy cos im trying to put myself in her shoes.. will i ask the person who accidentally step on me to compensate like the way she did ??

i dun thk so.. the most i blame her n just feel unlucky lor.. and i wont be shouting in public to someone as "idiot".. so low EQ.. i understand her frustration cos her shoes broke n im not helping her.. but could she be nicer? anyway.. somehow i feel she deserved it for being rude

anyway... i've been bubling abt this to JL whole night.. what a bad day i had on my b'day.. pheww...then boss sms.. abt work. said the slides not really completed in the way french boss wanted .. still have lots of changes.. well.. i stayed till 7pm.. what he expect ??.. he stayed till 9pm.. but hey.. it's my b'day today .. rememebred ??

JL complaint that i keep smsing with boss..work wat.. not i want !!

sigh.. b'day should never never fall on weekday..

shall sleep through the night and forget today..except for JL's hugs..

BangKok in March ?!?

arrgg.. so tempting.. sis goin bangkok for a week for course.. ask if i wanan tag along.. i almost said yes immediately.. but come to think again.. when she go course. i'll be left alone ??? soo boring...

mum have to take care of Chenn.. so cant leave..i guess not joining her again.. sigh... shopping spree got to be put on hold..

Tmw My B'day !!!!

I'll be one year older in less than 24 hours..counting downnn...

mm...nowadays not really happy about b'day as getting older.. when younger.. looking forward to each birthday..that's life..

boss said i dun have to go back office in the morning..just join them for lunch in the afternoon as vendor is buying us lunch.. heee.. another free lunch.. luckily i have been working out these days.. so at least burning while inputting.. heee

I promise to behave myself this year.. to be more matured.. to be more organise.. to be more caring.. to be more hardworking..

VaLEntiNe'S dAy 2006

Finish course already !! today is 14th Feb suppose to leave early.. but ended up stay till almost 7pm .. lousy instructor...

Had very sumptuous lunch at secret recipes (lunch provided by organiser), with raspberry cheese cake for tea break...

I really really cannot afford to take in more food.. so.. this year's Valentine's was spent in food court with my seafood hor fun left 3/4 cant finish..what to do.. too full...

Before, i was telling JL not to buy roses as it is simply "stupid" to buy roses on Valentine's as the roses are so darn expensive..no point wasting the $$..he can always buy roses for me some other day..

But when see couples having bouquet of roses.. feel so envy.. keep nagging at him.. say.. "how nice.." "How romantic.." why he never buy for me...

i guess all woman like that ?? I myself so confusing..

Surprisingly... i guess he knows me very well.. he bought one stalk of rose kept secretly in his bag..cos he said he knew i sure want..heee.. sweett..

Proved that i din choose wrong man.. cos he knows me....



Our Food court valentine's day was spent happyly.. who says Valentine's day must surely spent a lot ?!?

ohh... what did i buy for him ? .. he said very un-romantic..
(1) Brand essence Ginkgo Bilalo
cos he wanted to buy but that day couldn't find, so i buy lor..so caring.. no meh
(2) Nivea compact deodarant
easier to bring/use wat.. since he sweat a lot..this can keep him fresh all the
time..

ghaaa.. but think back.. err.. really very un-romantic.. but what can ger buy for guy? usually valentine's is guy pamper ger ..that's my concept..heee..

ShE is GetTinG mArRiEd 2..

yeah.. guess who guess who.. Wendy.. my insurance agent..first thing she told me when i met her this evening was that she is getting married..in April.. what a coincidence..of course i told her abt mine..

She said her bf (also an insurance agent) proposed to her when they were on their overseas trip ..last year August..she just got her house..resales 5 room flat.. which costs over 400k at Toa Payoh..she too complaining abt cannot get a new house..

She did not do her wedding the normal way.. as she said she wanna save money..she bought her wedding gown at lower price.. no wedding photos taking..no bridal packages.. only the photographing on that day.. she is a christian..and her parents in law were saying not good to wear the wedding gown before the actual day.. errr.. well... depends lah hor.. cos if never wear how to take pictures..

Happy for her.. as she too found her right man..she looks thinner than i remembered.. she said very busy with her work and the wedding preparation.. and she haven even book her wedding dinner banquet..

mm.. seems like JL and i are on track.. at least we have gotten those in list.. ar.. dun mention abt house...kek sim..

WheRE iS my MOnEy $$$$$..

Sob sob there goes my eighteen dollars... bye byee.. our partnership with Liew (my col who wishes to open a toto shop..) gone with da wind...

nvm.. we shal try our luck harder next year. the year of..mm.. dunno waht year.. should be better.. always one year better than the previous..

gonna be gambling queen..my col told me 1602 strike 4D .. too bad i dun have the sixth sense to hint me to buy...

GreAt SurPrise..

today like usual.. go gym.. work out.. n listen to HL as she has lotss to grumble abt work .. life..if work n no play really make ur life dull.. cos after the hectic schedule.. u feel so empty when left alone...

After my gym..surprisingly.. i received master Lim's sms...our conversation begins.

Master LIM
Hello , Ms Oracle, saw on CNN that 2,000 were cut. is that in the US only ?
master lim, Melbourne

Me
Happy chinese new year master Lim.. u mean oracle retrench ? No idea le now im miss swift no more oracle hee swift is a bank payment system im now with bank

Master LIM
Oh, found new home. CNN said the retrenched are excess from equisitions. Hope things are well with you. poor Suh was so bored at gathering at my home without you others. Wish you happy Chinese New year, too.

Me
im fine as always hope u n family have had great time during cny we will cheer her up soon will meet up when ML back in March ask u along if u r in Spore

Master LIM
Yes, ML called me and told me she looks forward to come back earlier. I'll be in Romania and azerbaijan early Mar,but please do let me know.

Me
sure thing :) cool get to travel to so many countries u sure ur job is not air steward huh hope to see u again take care till then


well.. have been with master Lim throughout the 3 years in NTU til we obtained our black belt.. but all along im not really close to him.. dunno why.. he is nice.. but wonder why just have a gap.. he n ML is father-daughter relationship.. He n Suh can even go for movies together at night..( fishy huh ) but suh clarify nothing more than just watching movie with a "fren".. jia.. not sure how she n master Lim's term.. but for me.. i respect him.. but just not so close to him.. wont share anything to him abt my personal life..wonder why..

but nice to hear from him though..getting older..hair is getting lesser.. heeee..

LoR hEi..

Tmw vendor will treat us.. most likely go lor hei.. this will b my third lor hei for the year of dog.. make it happiest year.. luckiest year.. most prosperous year.. heee

during lunch we were mentioning abt Irene.. once awhile my boss like to mention her.. and coincidentlt she called me in the afternoon.. saying she gotten the job at apple.. cool.. she finally got what she wanted.. and guess wat she can buy ipod with 25% reduction.. cool.. immediately tell my boss.. cos he has been eying for ipod for his son..

Sunday working.. sian.. after work will go out with Irene as she said wanna buy me dinner for my b'day.. keep saying i forgotten her b'day and yet she so nice to me.. aiyaa.. i never ask her treat also wat.. heeee..

i really notice that all of us that left Acacia have found better job in better company.. not bad at all..

HobBieS...

Wanted to learn beading again...miss the Feb class.. the next one will be in April.. the weekend after my ROM..mm... still considerating..sat.. guess should be ok lah.. cos 1/2 day only..

Decide later.. still have time..

wonder if i will pick up my tennis again.. boss been asking me.. but i dun want to get dark..at least for this year.. else become "O O" bride. wanna as fair as my veil. heeeeeeeeeee..


lots of offer nowadays.. sooo tempting.. wanna buy more shoes n clothes..MUST CONTROL......

No GAhmen..

French boss on leave.. back to Paris.. so the whole office really is having cny extended holidays.. all so carefree..so in holiday mood..my boss wearing jeans n loose t-shirt..chirping away...we lunch for 2 hours..shopping some more..

what a life..today boss officially assign my role as SA backup..cool.. i will have chances to travel.. hopefully this year.. cos boss is pushing HA (my curent SI Fu or aka mentor) to go business trip cos already budgetted.. wonder if i can tag along as his backup.. ghaaaaa.. anyway.. if im good at it.. i'll have my turn to go..

so now.. HA will path out the roadmap for me..to train me up.. i foresee myself a very important person already... ghaaaaaaa...day dream..at least with this role.. my position is more secured..

next week go course.. shall not be doing hands-on until im familiarise with the config n environment.. cos every mistake means losing money.. and my boss's head on chopping board .. so i must be very careful .. my boss keep reminding me..pheww.. stress ar.. but still find this a challenge though.. cos this is the role im asking for the first week i join this company.. this is the one role i find it useful n value added in long run.. my boss couldn't agree more.. and what's more can i ask..

so.. Kanbate..work n life must always be well-balanced.. i hope i can....

TeMpLe...

Usually i go temple just to "bai bai" pray for good health, happiness, all goes well for myself n my family.. that's all..

Yesterday join JL and family to temple..we "nian jing" praying to buddha....see lion dance..eat vegetarian.. it feels different.. i'm kind of like it..feel so protected and blessed..safe..

who knows one day i'll be able to recite the "ta bei cou"..hee.. a bit long though n must recite very fast..even with the book in front of me i cant catch up..

Great experience...

Fe-Bru-A-Ry

mm.. what do we have this month ?? Valentine's.. my b'day..and it's only 28 days.. lalalala.. happy..

counting down.. it's lesser than 3 months to our ROM ..n we still haven got our house..Pray hard more new houses will be released by march..

finger cross all will go as planned..

My mum's Fatt Gao

yummy... she is good in making food.. she tried this.. "fatt gao" and it's better than those we buy from market..

Chinese New Year In S'pOre

who says S'pore CNY not happening ? who says S'pore CNY boring ? so many activities out there.. esp in china town.. just be in the crowd u'll have the cny mood already.. but i guess back home will have more visitings than here lah..

our first CNY in s'pore memories..

reunion steamboat.. one portion is the "qing tang" one portion is the "ma la"


nephews with the "Cai Sen ye"



makaning session that cost nearly $200 bucks.. felt cheated.. as we tot they have set lunch so we used the set lunch menu to order n the stupid waitress that apply pimple creams did not even tell us that weekend no set lunch.. so we call so many till the bill mountain up to nearly $200.. really cant believe it...heartache




our visits to merlion


On our way to orchard from harbourfront.. wanted to go sentosa but seems like sentosa island was infested by indians n indonesians/phillipinos.. so we change direction to town.. town was sooo quite.. cos takashimaya n paragaon all closed for the day.. so we just walk walk see see..

cousins reunion...


burpp.. eat a lot already.. after cny got to go gym every day.. ghaaaa..

Ang Pow..

My first Ang Pow this year.. from my beloved boss.. he said " u big girl now, Give u Ang Pow..but dun let others see.. heeee"



ghaaa.. $20 bucks in the ang pow...this is the first time my boss ever give ang pow to his staff.. so honoured..

on the ang pow boss write.. "stay beautiful and youthful forever" in chinese.. he said the one our French boss gave him he keep till now.. so i also must keep the ang pow.. dun just spend the money inside.. heeee..

that's my boss.. always emotional..too emotional sometimes we really cant predict what mood he is in.. anyway he has been nice to me since i joined.. so i'm darn lucky i guess.. must always preserve what i have now..in order to go further.

Hugss for my boss.. still thinking whether to visit him during cny..

WoRk..

noticed that my boss like to give me work or call for meeting around 5:45 or 6pm..make me have to stay late.. siann.

I find that i cant just work for the sake of working.. this is not my boss's style .. he carries work home.. to sleep.. cos he think n worry all the time.. while me.. me.. i dun worry at all.. sometimes i feel guilty.. is that mean im not givin my best ? i dun take it that seriously as my boss.. maybe that's the difference between a manager and a emplyeee.. so to be at his position.. i have to re-adjust my way of working..not just do what is being told...mm.. got to review this.. after cny lah.. heee

tmw my last day at work before cny.. boss keep saying i marry leh,no need give me ang pow.. that stupid Jeff told boss i ROM le.. must be he heard conversation btw jen n i.. so kaypohh..i told boss not yet.. so he said then i can have ang pow.. haaaa.. then he ask when i wanna go his house during cny..aiya.. i dun plan to go actually.. cos others all dun wanna go.. siann...see how lahh

No MoOd 2 WoRk..

i tot i just decided to give 100% to my work..i tot i just reminded myself to be more vigilent..to work hard.. harder.. but how come i cant find any motivation to work hard ?!?

Holiday mood holiday mood..keep counting down...one down.. 3 to go.. friday on leave.. sis said go market early morning to get all the materials for steam boat..then spring cleaning.. yeah a bit late.. but better than never ..wonder how can i clear my piles of books/papers/letters on my table.. see also sian..

today department meeting..tom seems to be so unhappy cos boss did not treat him like usual..keep a distance ..n as usual he loves attentions and he wants to be pampered.. so angry with boss.. really dun understand some guy..so petty and acted like immatured man..GROW UP !!!

Jeff also another one.. he heard abt my increment and keep asking and of course im not telling .. he seems not so glad too..said usually contract's salary is higher so when turn perm should be lower .. well.. who asks my boss like me ?!? so no choice lor.. i get increment.. ghaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...

so sometimes not only woman is petty and red eye to see u better than them.. read me clearly.. guys tooooooo...

Jen and i always beh tahan when talk about those guys in my department.. petty and childish...n they gossips a lot too.. one word will usually end up become one paragraph...

well.. if to look at the bright side.. this means not boring.. cos if everything smooth sailing.. then sure very bored.. so with these will have a bit of colours.. haaa..

piles of clothes to be iron.. argggggggggg....

CNY on Da Way...

Hard to believe CNY is coming this weekend..not ready.. not prepared mentally..so fast..mum n brother & co is coming over.. so looking forward to it..i'll be on leave on friday to pick them up..

Bought fire cracker for yann & chenn.. we will go china town when they come this friday..n do some last minute shopping.. i haven bought new clothes yet. mm....

First time i stay in S'pore for CNY.. partly cos sis may not be able to rush home on time as month end and mum they all tot it'll be a change to come to s'pore for cny instead.. so that's how this arrangement comes about. coincidently, we decided on the marriage thing, so JL's parents will visit mum during cny..

taken this pic two weeks back in china town..



another family gathering this year.. lalalalla.. and this will be my last year getting ang pow...so will grab as much as i could.. haaaaaaaa

RaiNy Dayssss...CoLdddd..

nowadays our office temperature is 16 Degrees..night time it drops to 10 Degrees.. really in north pole.. too cold..i think i ever read some article saying that human brain function at its optimum at cold weather.. but feel so sleepy and brain-frozen at such condition..

Cant think well.. cant think well.... we will have a department meeting this coming monday.. cols were saying to suggest for cold wear.. cos really not so good for body if always in sch cold condition.. even our sweater/jacket not enough to keep us warm.. those seniour citizen ( uncles in my department ) still can take it.. i really respect them.. some suggest company to supply wine.. so that they feel warm at night. haaa.. later all sick cos taking alcohol..

feel like wearing jeans to work everyday.. warmer.. skirt also must wear long skirt. else leg trembling..now raining almost daily too... colder colderrrrr....

think of office.. start to feel cold again.. sighh...

Y2006 New Year Resolution...

i have not set any new year resolution this year yet.. or have i already ?

looking back..My New Year resolution for 2005
http://emotionbin.blogspot.com/2004_12_01_emotionbin_archive.html

To recap on my achievement in Y2005

Career and studies
I have completed the whole oracle & cisco, spent near 10k on the studies and exams and i've paid all of them with my own earning..amazing huh..

Switch job successfully. gotten a better salary job and beter boss with fun environemnt and lots of different experiences that anyone will not get to experience in normal working environment.

Goin to be permanent staff with upgraded salary and rank.

Studies not in my this year plan..maybe 2 more years if can sponsor by company, i wanna do MBA..

Health & Life
Been drinking vegetable + fruit juices almost daily as advised by my mum. feel healthier and good way to detox..

however, i think i still need to shed some more.. fat tummy and arm.. Grrrr....jia yu jia yu.. oh yeah.. this year i jog a lot.. way to go !!

and again the next best thing is that i decided to be JL's wife..we decided to settle down and share the rest of our life together..this is something im so looking forward to now.. cos this is a very long journey that we will be walking together..i hope we will face the challenge ahead with open heart and mind..and live happily ever after..

Enjoying this stage of my life..

Travel
Went to Hong Kong with mum n sis.. lousy one.. cos i got sick.. stupid cold weather..but we have fun though.. went to bangkok with cols.. have great fun but will be better if get more sleepssss... shop in tireness. phewww..

Wanna go Europe.. but with the marriage coming along.. guess got to hold this plan till after our customary which is next year ?!? will see how .. sob sob..


Y2006 New Year Resolution
@ Give my 100% to my work. Always be vigilent to what's happening around me
@ Give my 100% attention/care/loves to my darling..cos he will be my husband.. the father of my children.. my mum's son-in-law..my sis/brother's brother-in-law...
@ wanna exercise more.. always so lazy to go work out..too many lazy bugs in me.. Argggggg
@ housekeep my room.. tables..clear up my wardrobe..hate it.. but must do it
@ be more organise !!!!!!!!!!! im lacking of this
@ be more patient !!!!!!!!!!! im lacking of this too
@ Keep track of my spending.. i guess since last year im at this stage..always dunno where my money gone to.. spent unconsciously !?!
@ Keep in touch with my friends.. sometimes we are too engaged with our own life till we neglect our friends whom we have grown up together..how nice if all friends uses email n msn/yahoo chat .. cos this is the best channel to keep in touch
@ spend more time with my mum..she is a happier person now.. with her own healthy work out..neighbours.. happy

the list goes on n on..shall review in Y2007

My EmPloyMent...

today HR finally get back to boss saying they have gotten HO approval for my permanent status conversion..with the salary suggested by my boss.. hooo. happy happy..

boss wrote to me to tell me he always make sure he do something abt my career path..i thank him for not givin up on my employment.. really grateful of him.. eventhough these 2 days there are lots of problem on operational side. continuos problem.. he did not lunch for 2 days.. pitiful..

i think i will buy him some cny stuff as my appreciation to his support ever since i join him..where to find boss that always look after you and ensure u r in good hand ??

at the same tim, Karen said her PR application approved and she too being coverted to permanent staff.. what a news for both of us..good start of year 2006 ..

Love conquers all...

Name List for our dinner..

so.. got to know who are we inviting for our dinner.. list out names of relatives and friends that we wish to share our joy with..

Getting the name is not difficult but grouping them so that they are comfortable is quite a chanllenge.. cos each table can occupy up to be 10.. so if you have 12 friends from the same group..will be scratching head on how to arrange the seats..

I guess.. we are doing all right..we have got those need to be arranged n booked.. now left the super big one--> The House... we need a roof ..gotta be patience on this as my sis is in the midst of settling the conversion..n we have agent to assist us after that.. hopefully more new houses with good location is coming up after cny... fingers cross and hope for the best

Marriage Date Ticker

PreParaTioN woRk...

Thinking of all the items to be prepared, ready, find out, schedule.. headache already...how nice if can just go somewhere n announce to frens n relatives that hey we r married... that's all..runaway couples...



but i guess the process is worthwhile and once a lifetime..no regrets..am glad that JL is always able to calm me down when i get agitated easily with things that doesn't turn out as expected....

why cant i have more patience in dealing things/people/situations ?!? must yoga-ing more..heeee..

Love this picture..


"Love is not 'Blind' but visionary: it sees into the very heart of its object, and sees the 'real self' behind and in the midst of the frailties and shortcomings of the person" Andra Angyal

Helen's WedDing DinNer..

nice hotel..nice food..but too much of waiting time..simple and sweet though..i guess no wedding dinner will ever be punctual even the guest are reminded in the invitation.. we waited for more than an hour just to get started..

Helen was beautiful as she always is..not much chance to talk to her though..her hubby was as humourous as i used to remember..

Tot of getting some ideas from her wedding for my own wedding..anyway.. got to gather more information to decide on what style i want and how i want it to be..

some photos taken to share.. ahem... my sis make up not bad huh.. i look quite different that some of my friends cant recognise me..

Before the wedding dinner.. posing at home.. heee.. with bouquet of roses by JL when proposed and of course his ring to me



the dress is beautiful.. a bit of low cut.. n i bought the stupid invisible bra that keep showing the hook in between.. ARgg.. make me have to keep covering..wasted..



JL+LH





NTU friends in the same table including jia..

He ProPosed...

7th January 2004 was our first date...flying kite at merina bay..2 years later 7th January 2006.. he proposed... and reminded me of this date..sweet huh...

venue he proposed...the place he first hold my hand..n he compiled our smses.. emails..till the last page.. " Will you marry me ?"..
he touched me with such gestures again..how can i refuse right..

Actually we bought the ring and file our marriage registeration already.. but he said a formal proposal should be in place to make it complete..but still a surprise for me as he chose today..cuaght me off guard..

still feel the lovessss showered by him...



Frens that i share my blog with, just to take this opportunity to let you know that im going to Register for Marriage (ROM) this 3rd April 2006.

Will update the dates of marriage once we decided and confirmed.

HomE sWEeT hOmE 2005

Been home in melaka from 24th Dec till 1st Jan .. spent xmas & New Year back home.. with company of JL..

As usual.. mum busy cooking.. we busy eating..sleeping.. shopping..heeee.. this time round i got few chances of taking public bus in Melaka. haven been doing that for ages..quite shiok actually..

Get to spend time with two nephewss. chenn is getting cuter.. n yann is as mischievious as usual...

Some of Food we had in Melaka

Sting Ray


One of the Shell sea food.. dunno wat it's called


Feast..cheap n good


Steamboat at home on X'mas day.. family gathering...


Roti-John


Chicken Rice Ball


Fren's gathering..


Fruitful trip.. Most of all my family members get to meet up with JL..have great time with him back home..he happier cos first time i see him shop/buy so many things...bought more things than i ..tsk tsk tsk..


Looking fwd to a long holidaysss..