Hugs 4 U..

Find this pic sweet. Hugs for u Bao bei.

Kamasutra Positions di World Cup

Laugh till u drop @_*

Moral Story

The story goes like this..

A man feared his wife wasn't hearing as well as she used to and he thought she might need a hearing aid. Not quite sure how to approach her, he called the family Doctor to discuss the problem. The Doctor told him there is a simple informal test the husband could perform to give the Doctor a better idea about her hearing loss.

"Here's what you do," said the Doctor, "stand about 40 feet away from her,
and in a normal conversational speaking tone, see if she hears you. If not, go to 30 feet, then 20 feet, and so on until you get a response."

That evening, the wife is in the kitchen cooking dinner, and he was in the den. He says to himself, "I'm about 40 feet away, let's see what happens."

Then in a normal tone he asks, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
No response.
So the husband moves to closer to the kitchen, about 30 feet from his wife and repeats, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Still no response.
Next he moves into the dining room where he is about 20 feet from his wife and asks, "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Again he gets no response so;

He walks up to the kitchen door, about 10 feet away. "Honey, what's for dinner?"
Again there is no response.
So he walks right up behind her. "Honey, what's for dinner?"

"James, for the FIFTH time I've said, CHICKEN!"

Moral of the story:
The problem may not be with the other one as we always think - could be
very much within us..!
SO don't always blame others for the things that you may lack.

Working late?

I guess u have read about this. But just to refresh what u have read.

Mens rules

Please note... these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!

Breasts are for looking at and that is why we do it. Don't try to change that

Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

Saturday = sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way

Crying is blackmail

Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
JUST SAY IT!

‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question

If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us & You have enough clothes & too many shoes

When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine, Really

If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done
Not both
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself

Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials

If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that

If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle

Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as:
Sex,
Sport, or
Cars

Most of the Most

Most Expensive Countries to Live in Rank Country
1 Japan "not bad, Asia country in first ranking"
2 South Korea
3 Russia
4 Taiwan
5 Norway
6 Hong Kong
7 Switzerland
8 Denmark
9 Argentina
10 China
11 Finland
12 Cote d'Ivoire
13 United States
14 Sweden
15 Venezuela
16 United Kingdom
17 Singapore
18 Oman
19 Jordan
20 Kuwait

mm..M'sia is not so expensive afterall..no wonder the johor cab driver told me
"If m'sian dun work, they still can live. But if s'porean dun work, they will die"
Ahem..digest it.


Source: CIA World Factbook

RelieF...

Finally, i've got my S'pore driving license. They will send the photo driving licence within a month's time. I was given the temp slip which i can drive with it. Hell of a process but just glad it was finally done and over.

Now, left with two outstandings:
(1) Renew passport. 7th July
If successfully processed. i can collect within the next 10 days.

(2) renew re-entry permit in new passport
After i've got my passport, have to make a trip to Renew the re-entry permit.

Tmw lights installation. Will take new photos of my new home. Most of the things are done.

I have took 2 hours nap today. Shiok. I dun have the habit to take nap but today too tired cos yesterday night i drink coffee and ended up cant sleep, stay widely awake till 2am. Today got up early to do the licence conversion.
So today's nap is to catch up my yest sleepssss..

LaoGong.. Kanbate !!
He has been working from 8am to nearly 10pm since back from leave. His work will never finish. Sometimes i really feel lucky as till to-date my job always has lots of free time and dun have to work till late hours.

Feel tired for him. take care for me k !!

LicenCing !!!

This is how i spent my 1 week holidays. I felt even tired than go to work.

Monday supposed to get the conversion letter from JPJ. Yong drove us to JPJ. But, i dun have my M'sia IC cos the MHC took my IC for the Marriage cert. so begging the officer to let me thru with my international passport. After explaing to few officer, finally they said ok. BUT Guess what, i found out i lost my Driving licence. The one with picture gone missing !!! the one with the extension still there. But i cant proceed without the picture licence. The office was suggesting me to re-do the licence on the spot with fine RM20. But Im just cant believe i've lost my picture licence !! the night before i still took it out and put it in my wallet compartment for today. so, i decided to go home n search one round.

Bad luck indeed. i cant find it. mum said must report police. make me worried what will people do if they pick up my licence. maybe they change my picture to use it ? maybe they rob some bank n drop my licence on the scene ? or murder someone and drop my licence on the spot ?? all kind of imagination.

But then, busy with renovation. Tuesday burnt with the house reno stuff. Glad to see my cabinets all buiding up.

Wednesday, had lunch with JL then i went to collect marriage certs at MHC. finally got back my m'sia IC. and get appointment number to renew my international passport. the date is 7th July (friday) i took leave on 3rd July(Monday) since 2nd july taking pictures, tot maybe tired. but since the appointment date is friday. so i sms boss asked him to switch my leave date. luckily he agreed. so i shall forgo the monday leave n take it on friday to renew passport instead. The renew charges is $130 .. mm.. m'sia is Rm300. but the waiting time is 10 days in s'pore. msia side, my mum said can get the passport in 1 day.

After that, went to change the lights at Bugis. then went gym.

so, thursday (today), decided to settle my licence in johor. Morning went down to Johor. Somehow, i tot of going bck to meleka. But after some tots, i guess it will take much longer time to go home than settle in johor. So, i dropped by the nearby police station to find out if i have to make a report for my lost licence.
The police officer said no need, just go direct to JPJ to make new one.

so i got on a cab that happened to passed by the police station. Malay uncle. he charged me RM13 for the trip. So we sort of have some conversation on my mishap. After talking awhile, we started talking abt m'sia-S'pore people behaviour.He got so worked-up when he told me his experience with some s'poreans. said they r arrogant n no respect to people's country as they come to johor n said m'sia no standard .. blahh.. i was like.. err.. ok.. dun have to be so angry. cos in many ways, m;sia really lack of this little something. At least my journey felt short as we are engaged in conversation.

Managed to get my new license and the conversion letter in about 11/2 hours time (of course, most of it are waiting time). But, what a relief that at least i've gotten my new licence. Jumped into the cab waiting outside JPJ. he wanted Rm14. i told him Rm13. n he said ok. indian uncle. we din talk much. Just short one. Also about S'pore n m'sia stuff. but he seemed more open minded and not conservative abt the changes in msia.

Wonder why the cab driver all can know im from s'pore. i tried my best to speak malay with them. still they know im going city square. the Indian uncle knows where im going even before i told him.

Back to s'pore before noon. went direct to Bt Gombak to convert licence. GUESS WHAT the lady said need documents/old passport to prove that i was a student at the time i obtained my driving licence !!! I was like "HUH??' Is this one of the required document ? it is not stated in ur conversion form ?? how do you expect me to produce anything at that very moment ? old passport ? who keep old pssport anyway ? so she said produce school certificates !! damn. I was so angry. cos i queued for nearly 45 minutes and i cant do it. i have to come back another trip. I wanted to speak to her supervisor. but she said 2pm. I was too hungry to wait till 2pm.i haven eaten my lunch !! darn so have to come back tmw.

So pray hard tmw i can have my conversion done. smoothly.

SiX monThs more ^o^

Time fliess.counting down.6 months to go.

mm.. i guess too early to count down. hee..

background colour

I scew up the colour. Forgot to save before changing and now it becomes green.. neeway, lazy to modify, wait till i have the mood to adjust it !!

Bear with it.

GSS..KiLLeR

I've got myself few items today. GSS really empty my pocket

(1) Cold wear. White one.

(2) working bag. beige colour.

(3) bras. Green & black

(4) JL bought 2 working pants

So in total, for the month of June itself, i've got the above and also

(5) 3 pairs of covered shoes

(6) 2 skirts. beige & black from bysi

(7) 1 tube dress from bysi too

(8) 1 pyjamas & 3 panties from Blush!

(9) 1 wedding photo album

For our house, we have bought
(1) Lights for whole house & 4 fans. Including cabling we have spent nearly 3k !!!

(2) settle the hoob & hop

(3) house painting. now JL can recite the paint colour name whenever he sees one.
we have crack our head for the colours.really.

(4) tuesday will get the curtain quotation.

(5) Tuesday & wednesday, carpentry will be up, including kitchen & study cabinet,toilet cabinet, bomb shelter mirror, wardrobe & shower screen.

Things to be done for the house after the above:

(1) decide the location of toiletries by this weekend

(2) Look for dining table & buy the wooden rack from ikea

(3) arrange for delivery for sofas & bed & oven

(4) buy a small table for JL's pet <-- The Three eatable fish (one blind one) & few other colourful fish.my gold fish will come soonnn.

(5) buy fridge + washing machine

The list continuesss...

Not forgetting JL's new phone.still deciding M1 or SingTel. but most likely SingTel.

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

A friend send me this article. I find it rather meaningful


DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with
your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked
their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a
completely natural and spontaneous experience.

You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in
love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the
imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing
there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But
after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the
natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when
it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,
drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you
think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between
the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry
the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for
fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is
the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a
friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this
dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not
saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a
few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it
day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of
love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your
marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your
relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...
you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

My 1 weEk HoliDays..

such a long boring weeek.. finally it's over and my holidays begins now.. woallalallalalalaa.. so excited !!!

Mum n sis going Taiwan in August !! how i wish i could go.. 7 days trip !! darn !! im trying to save more money for my bigger trip !! so i shall bear with it..!! Tahannnnn !!1

sob sob ..*_* still i wanted to tag along !!@_#.. crying my hearts out..
Our ladies trip to shanghai was 2 years ago.. it was fun and mum enjoyed the trip very much . that was the first long trip for mum after my father's departures.. mum was depressed for few months..Gladly, after the trip, she seems cheerful n see life in a different way.. life without my father..

Col sent me his Europe trip photos.. so beautiful..his Europe route was..
London --> Belgium-->germany-->Armsterdam -->Switzerland(Lucern)-->London

The pictures of my col with his wife look so lovely !!
mm..i started to imagine my own trip now.I will definitely take loads of pictures...
But, i haven got myself a camera !!!!!! sigh.. all not prepared.. contiki hasn't send the brochures. lousy. so many weeks since i applied!!!
I guess im too lazy to plan for my trip, alternative is to engage the tour package and let them plan, we just pay n follow n enjoy ourself..
poeple like me lack of the sense of direction, so unless JL willing to do the planning else got to follow tour package.. easier..

1/2 a year to go ....my home is almost completing..tmw will go n take few snaps..EXCITED !!

WoaLalallalalala....

B@ss on compliance leave till next wednesday.. so we are in Free & easy mode.. long coffee break..surf net..CC even use one of the 50 inch plasma to display our D&D photos.. huaaa.. how nice if can watch movie on the plasmas..

Jeff back from his 2 weeks leave..as usual his look spoil my day..my Monday.. he is giving the "very" stress n troubled look AGAIN.. SO VERyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy irritating.. dun feel like talking to him..

How i wish to walk into the office and see some smilling faces on Monday morning.. tat's so important to start the 5 working daysss u know... tskk... lousy mood..lousy cols.. lousy people..

neeway..still got to explain stuff to him.. those work i've done during his absence and his follow ups..after that i just spent the rest of the time trying hard to digest the reading material boss left to me.. which suppose to enhance my knowledge but extremely dry n boring topics...yawnnn my way to lunch...

4 more days..i shall bear with this.. Friday pay day.. yipee.. JL said weekend John little has 20% off can shop for vitamins, skin care products..n new bras.. heeee..

Oh yeah.. i found Blush! panties real good.. very very comfy and i decided to get their pyjamas..now blush! on offer.. grab while you can !!

LCD...WHich iS bEttA ???

WorDL CUp.. You watch football.. I shop for TV

32" LIQUID CRYSTAL DISPLAY (LCD)


(1) Samsung

32" LCD TV(/Li)

16:9 Aspect Ratio

500 cd/m2 Brightness

5000:1 Dynamic Contrast Ratio Wide Viewing Angle 178°/178°

10-Bit Signal Processing

The salesman said Samsung LCD was now assembled in M'sia

(2) Panasonic

Multi System (17 system) V-Real Technologies (Processor & Driver)

HD ready with 2 x HDMI input, 1080i & High Definition panel

1366 X 768 pixel HD panel (XGA panel), 16:9

1200:1 contrast ratio

8 msec response speed

Nicam/Stereo, Fastext

Multi Window (PAT)

LCD AI

1 way, 2 speakers surround (10W x 2)

Power Consumption 168W

Power supply: AC 100-240V, 50/60Hz

Salesman said assemble in China..quality wise..(u know i know).. now offer, get a dig camera & $300 robinson voucher.. so tempting


Some says LG is considerable.. Sony is good but price range is higher..another hard to decide item..

WintEr ClothIng..

GSS.. best time to grab whatever u wish with better price...i've bought 3 pairs of shoes.. 2 new skirts, 1 new dress, 1 album (65% discount, i really really think the cashier made a mistakes, precious totz only have 15% off but she gave me 65%..muahhh)..1 sweet photo frame (bought today).. i think i need a working bag..this will be my this week mission...

My next big-buy will be winter clothing, as we decided to go Europe next year.. gotta get some cold wear, guess now is the best-er time..i kinda like this white one..but JL said i look like pregnany woman cos it's lengthy , i tot it will warm me better since it covers more ?!?.. hard to decide...mm..



JL gonna upgrade his handphone, those with camera.. finally he go for camera phone..hoo.. i will make his storage fill with my pictures..heee..

NAiLsss FevEr

I've been working hard..pat on my shoulder for my "good work"
For the past 2 weekends including this weekend i've been sacrifinng my time in office..was sick last week but still manage to go to work without mc.. n manage to survive till today..next week will be my last 5 days work.. then it'll be my turn to be on-leave !!!..yes baby.. 1 week....no more weekends in officeeeeeeee...

VerY tired.. still coughing.. i really admire the energy i have, i can still go gym, shopping, deciding on house renovation details n all..pheww..

Recently, been eying at my contractor's nail..she is a very fashionable lady, a young mother of two but she looks like any other young ladies out there.. she likes to paint her nails and changes the pattern every time we meet her..

It happened that last week, some ad-hoc stalls setup at Tampines mall selling the nails/manicure stuff attacted my attention during my weekend working day lunch time, i've got my self 3 sets of nails stickers..and the outcome... (taken by my K700i, not so clear..)



i guess with a bit more of practises, i'll be good.. heee.. Jen is trying out using the nail colours pen.. but a bit hard to do it on right hand since we r right handed..neeway, fun stuff to play with..