moTherhoOd..

as im approaching my 30s...frens my age starting to get married one by one.. married frens starting to walk into motherhood..

well.. where i am ? working hard to save money to go Europe.. haaaa.. well..i guess i will be doing wat my frens r doing.. get married n be parents..this seems to be something "RIGHT" to do ..

when young we study..finish study we look for job.. got job already.. look for bf.. got bf already get married.. get married liao have children.. have children liao.. thats' the end of our life to 'enjoy' life .. cos basically we will be working hard for our children's future.. when work n work n work.. we get older n older.. children grow up.. we will be deserted.. n the End.. so ironic..

but this cycle seems to be repeating generations after generations..

nowadays.. first question frens back home in home town is .. "when u getting married ?".. phewww.. stress like that.. some more see them bring children out.. n some have kids of 4 to 5 years old liao.. phewwww..

This bring me some tots.. why frens back home usually married younger ?? dun they need to put more time in their careers?? dun they want to climb higher in work-force ? most of my frens studying in s'pore still single..

maybe expectations is different? back home.. after studying.. they go back to hometown to work.. n then not much activities.. got bf oness.. married lor.. life back home more relax.. so romance can come easily.. maybe.. not too sure though..


BraVo to all my ladies frens..married or not.. stay cheerful n happy..