Child-care hand-over

I think i'm lucky in the sense that i have a very understanding and helpful in laws.. they never stop showing us that they are always there to assist in situation that we need them.

Eventhough their style my be slightly different than mine, as i'm more casual, i dont follow many rules e.g dinner must eat all together in table, must call before eating, must pray befor eating, a lot of "standards" in ONG's family.. mine very casual, as we do what we please..ince young.. hee..


Given that my mum is no recuperating at my sis place after her radiosurgery, she cannt take on the looking after didi tasks anymore, as she and we fel she needs to rest more than being with active lil Jared.

So, we ask PIL whethr they can asist for the next 5 months plus, until didi go to childcare, since MIL already retired. this, of course interrupted her "retirement" plan of no alarm clock, swimming every tuesday and thursday, go market and jalan jalan whenever she likes with FIL..

but, we have no other choice wor.. and they understand and sort of .. they agreed to assist.

so, since July, PIL have been taking care of Didi at home, while missy in childcare with maid, which i have ask her to continue or 1 more year, as i feel it's too tedious to start to train a new maid now. she agreed and of course i have increased her salary.

Next year then e think of getting a new maid then slowly train .

So far, allm works out well.. Just hope it stays this way until didi goes childcare.