maid-matter

my coughing which lasted for more than 2 weeks seem subsided.. last week i was ok, no coughing and all, but yesterday while baking pineapple tarts, i ate some, today too, and i ended up coughing again.. shake head.. why so weak..i hope flu/cough bugs wont follow me this year.. choo choo go far far away !

and after my cough, LGG also cough.. maid also like slight cough.. i din pay much attention as when she cough, i told her what to take..recently, last week, i started to notice her voice a bit weird, like going to have cough or sore throat.. i ask her, she said slight throat arritation, nothing much. i dun bother that much la.. cos i myself also cough and all..

yesterday, i started to notice her rightt chin/near the throat part swelling up.. like people with thyroid..i then ask her what happen she said dunno, she said at first she thoght toothache, then after 2 days it swell up.. no pain.. and feel soft.. i then touch that swollen area, it feels like got lump of hardening.. yeak.. what's this ?? i asked her, want to see doc ? she said no need, nothign much !

but her mouth stink like what...then after discuss with LGG..we decided to bring her to see doc, just in case, any disease.. doc said it's hr saliva gland blocked.. and said when checked inside the area between tongue and molar, got whitish thing which look like got pus.. if antobiotic cant sure, may have to see specialist in SGH yeakk....

she now on antibiotics and pain killer, she told doc painful when eating.. but when i ask her she said no pain.. shake head.. while LGG brought her to see doc, i check her note book, she wrote there she has been in pain for 1 week, feel like dying blahh.. said she must have done somethign very sinful that caused her to suffer like this and said she missed her son so much feel like goin home to hug him.. blah..

I then confronted her when she was back from clinic. I told her, if she decided to keep quiet for any sickness and only wait for us to "discover" and now seem so serious already..she told me only started past 2 days, but her diary said 1 week plus lioa.. she then keep saying sorry to me.. i asked her if she wanna go home ? since already pain until want to die and miss her son ( i have been asking if she wants to call home or write home, but she said no need). she said no, she want to stay.

Feel super sian handling maid..this maid seem to be ok till now, 5 months plus le.. but if her condition worsen, i will have to send her back home, i cant bear her medical fees here, why should i ? she somemore still owe agency money, which we have paid for her upfront..

headache, hopefully, her condition gets better until after i give birth then see how!

Tiger year ! better be good ! dun want to have such bad luck like 2009 !