Sometimes it's normal that we have some arguments with our mum.. i noticed that when we stay together we always have arguments.. im not sure is it because we both have different way of thinkings or we both as stubborn..
Yesterday, while i was taking nap. mum carried baby into my room. telling me baby not sleeping the whole afternoon. i casually said .."aiya.. you dun kaypoh go and carry the baby, pass to maid lah" immediately she got angry and pass the baby to maid and said "i dun want to take care of the baby !" i was telling her.. "you have backache, already complaining that cannot carry , still you go n carry.."
With that the whole evening ended up silence..
im too lazy to bother.. cos she din bother the baby.. so i have to take over.. where got time to sweet talk mum some more..dun care
this morning, she still angry, not talking to me.. i dun care lah.. ask the maid help to feed baby while i go out to take newspaper..when im back.. she still hiding in bed room.. so sian le.. i ask her " what's wrong with you ?"
She raised her voice with tears.. said i scolded her.. said maid laughed at her.. said im accusing her of fighting to take care of baby.with maid. i was like.. HUH ?? since when i said that ? weird in the sense that she can think of all these which she imagined herself.. and then she got angry and feel sad the whole night..and i think she misundetstood maid cos she dun understand her english. she said maid pretend to be hardworking only when im around.
but, i think all maid like that wat.. wat she expect me to do ? fire the maid and get new one ?
she said she wanna go home.. im angry too.. so words slipped out of my mouth.. "ok lah.. u want to go home, you can go home, but wait till rain stop" cos it was raining then.. she said " i can take cab" she started to pack mand all..with tears and all.. i felt like i've done something so terible till she acted this way.. sosoososos dramatic.. remind me of my ROM day.. also another drama..
deep down i was thinking.. it was a pity that she din't become an actress..
i called my sis.. told her what happen, she asked me to calm my mum down. so no choice lah.. got to apologise .. which i still think i din do anything wrong.. but no choice lah...i cant beat her being a drama queen !!
sigh.. it is always difficult to handle human being.. i rather work with PC..at least not much emotion involved.
Worst come to wosrt, i just have to leave baby to maid alone when i go back to work. No point feeling down cos there is always a way out of everything !
It has been ages since i had my diary written somewhere.. sometimes i feel like starting again but never get to do it.. now with the convenience of blog.. i may begin where i left off..
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hmm... sometimes old ppl will be a bit sensitive geh lar. coz they have a feeling that they are old, no use oredi. so we as their children must always try to make them feel important. sometimes my parents also like that. so i'll pretend to ask their opinion or advice, even tho' i oredi made up my mind or oredi know the answer. human r/ships are really complicated... have to work on it lor.
ya, many friends told me when we get older, we will be very sensitive in many ways.. so, my mum is not alone huh !
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