Sting-i-ness

Tak boleh tahan...

Sometimes people is so stingy till their stinginess affect other people..

real case #1:
one of our col in another department went for fibroid removal op. He wanted to show how he care, telling her if she go for operation, must inform him so that he will visit her or buy her some fruits basket.

So, recently, she went for the op. We found out. he talk big to her department cols , wanted her address cos he wanted to send him some wellness gift.

So, guess what he did ? he send an email asking me to buy and ask everyone in our department to share !!! funny right ? isn't he the one wants to show kindness ?? why must we share and buy for him ?

That's the problem. the underline lies in.. he always wanted to do something...to show others how generous he is.. how kind he is.. but he used his own department people to pay for it. he ask everyone to share.. not he ask.. he used other to do the job to sk others.. u get what i mean. so beh tahan him.

a $45 fruit basket, cant he afford ? but he rather ask everyone to share (we don't like the lady anyway, such an arrogant person) , so if u don't share, he take it personal, taking it as u r not cooperating with him.

So, we r the scapegoat !

real-case #2
He emailed to me asking if myself and another col wanna go for lunch to eat fish head curry. his treat. im fine with it lah, but being understanding, i say i will buy deserts. all agreed.

But, when we at the hawker centre, the food came. the aunty asking for money. guess what he did ?? he pretended eating.. din even show any initiative to take out wallet to pay.. so my col as a guy, have to foot the bill !!!'

Can you believe it ?? i still keep my words, i bought them deserts. cos im not like him. he thinks everyone owes him cos he is the one decide our salary & bonus !

But, hey, we work for it ! and the money is not his ! it's the company's !!

We wonder if he will double his wealth by doing all these small action ! despising people who always trying means and ways to get advantage of others. abuse his power over the weak !

Geesss.. how i feel better after i spill it out !! i cant be going around complaining him ! i wish i could say it out loud and let him hear it !