Wednesday, May 18, 2005

LoVe...

Cant really explain in words how falling in love is so wonderful...just feel so wanted.. feel so belonged to..feel so cozy.. so cared by.. so sayanged by.. haaa

Cant explain in words how falling in love will make u miss him so much.. think of him all the time..miss him all the time..

im always the "bad" one in this relationship.. cos i always like to say things that hurt him.. things like dun miss him.. dun want him.. want to stay single.. blahh....but im just teasing.. dun really mean it.. why i wanna do this ? mm.... cos maybe keep saying love .. miss.. after awhile will be bored.. so must say the opposite.. ghaaaaaaaa.....

wonder how long will i have the feeling of being in love..how long will this last? i guess.. romance will turn into relationship.. just like with our siblings.. cos so used to each other.. so.. eventually there will be no sparks?? no surprises... well... i dun have any surprises now though...

relationship needs both parties's effort to work out... so i guess.. i cant just hope or expect from him alone...but then still as gers.. naturally will expect more from the guy..

it is always so complicated when talk abt how to blossom a relationship.. what's more to maintain.. pheww..

where will i be in the next 5 years time.. what will i be doing ?? sounds like interview q..like my colleague said "LIFE IS SO BEUTIFUL " must say it loud n clear.. heee.. bunch of mad people there...

3 comments:

stargal said...

read this in a book:

"i still love you, but i'm not in love with you anymore. love is what's left when being in love has gone, okay? it's when you care about someone and you hope they're happy, but you're not under any illusions about them. maybe that kind of love is not exciting and passionate and all those things that fade with time. all those things that you're so keen on. but in the end it's the only kind of love that really matters"

HuEi said...

i tot to be inlove is wat's matter and wat's keep the relationship going ? isn't it wat we r looking for to be "in love" n not just love?

stargal said...

i think 'in love' here is a relationship with all the rainbows, flowers, honey and all those sweet stuff. like honeymoon lar. but how long can those things last? it's the LOVE that'll sustain a relationship till the end. like when u're 40 y/o, u look at ur hubby with pot-belly in a dingy ole singlet, sweating in the garden... and u still feel love for him.