Monday, January 24, 2011

Siblings !



i find this photo amusing. taken in mid dec. when the two were playing @ home. with missy trying to stay near the "tiger" brother to take a photo. and this is wat the brother did.. biting his sister's hair.. OMG and being captured on camera !



when they are playing nicely, they really look cute together.. e.g playing ball..

good photos to remember their childhood

Lil Jared @ 11th month -old


My liltle cherup is now 11th month-old. That's how fast time passed. We spent 2 weeks of his 10th month old in Melaka. That's when he "forgot" about his walker abd started to crawl and stand and cruising while holding on furniture.

He now can walk while holding on sofa/wall. and he is making so much noises that once he is awake the whole house is full of his noises. He will use voices to ask for things, to get what he want. and he now can clap (very cute to see him clap, as he will only move one hand to clap on the other), he can waive goodbye, he can do "gong xi gong xi" and when his mood is good, he will do kiss goodbye..

he can use his thumb and pointing finger to grip food like bread and put into his mouth, he play catching.. when we pretend to chase him, he will crawl fast away and then turn back to see if we are chasing him, giggle all the way. he loves food, he wants anything his popo is eating.

He loves his sister, anything his sister do will attract him and he wants part of it. lil missy is learning to share now more than last time.they are very adorable when playng peacefully together but things can turn very "messy & noisy" when one refuse to share (either didi or missy).. *shake head*

one more month to go, and my little boy will be one yo. I have already check out the birthday cake and we have somehow decided on the cake design. CNY is coming, we got didi a new year romper, very cute when he wears it. and missy got her new shoes, new qipao (grandma bought from china).. all ready for the festive season.

Happy growing up my babies !

My NEW YEAR Resolution

another late post, which i have written in office but no time to online from home to post it.

I looked back my Y2010 Resolutions..
1. Stay HEALTHY. HAPPY. Be a beter person than Y2009.
2. Get back to my prepregnancy weigh after giving birth
3. Travel to HK or BKK..(with new bb, im not so sure to)
4. Be a better mummy
5. Invest wisely
6. Learn to save more than spend more.. bad habit

well, i have been trying to stay healthy this year, it's better, no more flu and stuff, i went back to my fitness centre in october (right after i stopped breastfeeding) and i have been a regular to weekday's lunch time classes.

I feel fitter but i still have lots of fats to get rid of.. and i've been follow up with my medical checkup closely now, as we age, more and more problem will come. finger cross,

a better person ? i think im trying..but i still get complaints from mum hubby of my hot temper and being unreasonable.. k area to work on.

travelling - only back to home town.. sigh.

be a better mummy ? learning to be one.. i feel very loved by my girl. she is such a passionate girl that she tells me she loves me, she likes me..almost daily

Investment wise, my portfolio has been growing. Am happy for the extra "bonus" earned this year. hoping for better bonuses next year.

i still spend and spend.. but more consciously i hope..

I feel after i gave birth to lil Jared in Feb and enjoyed my maternity leave of 4 months, i have learnt to slowly get back to my life.. a working lady's life. I re-join fitness centre, signed up spa sessions, i shop, buy new clothes, buy new shoes..i shop online. (that's the thrill of being a financially independent woman). I enjoy being with my children when im at home and all weekends. i palns for our outings, weekends acivities. I make sure my girl do her Shichida worksheet at least 3 days a week.

I try to reflect what i've done on the day before sleep. i still regrets on certain actions that i've done, which i feel i can make it better. I still feel im not at the level that i can see everyone as the same, i still not at the level that i can humble down,

So, What's my Y2011 resolution? i guess it'll be the same area again..

1. Health
Keeping in check of my check-ups, exercise regularly(fitness centre). more greens in my diet. i would love to detox on weekly basis (on vege juice for meals).

2. Career
many changes in my department due to changes in management, but we are still comfortable with our area of work. My concentration is still on the system that i support. a huge relocation project goin on which we will be in new place by end of this year. a very inconvenient area, sigh. no more shopping during lunch i guess. shall see how la.

3. Family
concentrate on bringing up my two cherups. lil missy is turning 4 in Sept. lots of learning in the pipeline. english, chinese, mathematics. Shichida has many new things for 4 yo class too. Am trying to get her to do her worksheet/recital/memory training, her chinese word recognition, mathematics recital (yes recital in a rhythm). im keeping a record on my diary on what i do with her on weekly basis. As for didi, i will try to get him to see flash cards.

As for LGG, i still have lots of dissatisfaction, i still think he can do more and better as a husband and father. i feel that he always think i can handle things, yes, when im in good mood/condition. No when i feel exhasted from all the works/tasks/chores. It will be helpful if he can share the loads. a simple thing like what to eat for dinner is also a chore if im being loaded with things like work/handling the kids etc.. i still feel he should observe and not wait for me to tell him everything that needs his attention.
tt's why woman seldom get Alzheimer cos our brain is working all the time.

Besides this part, he is still a very NICE hubby,appreciate all his support and understandings. i wish im calm like him in any situations


4. Travelling
I hope to travel to at least one oversea country this year. it's the 4th year that i have not travelled. thinking of bringing the two little ones along. shall see how the plan goes.

5. All-about-Me
ok. i still have to keep telling me, to calm down in many situation, not to get hot temper. not to be so blunt. not to raise my voice when angry. just BE NICE. how hard is it right? is it stress that i always feel i over react to situation ?


alright, it's abt all i can think of.. just wish me luck in achieving the above. and hope for a better year for my family and myself.

My Workout schedule

My workout schedule at Amore fitness centre since Oct 2010.

I want to keep a record so that it serves as motivation to me to keep up the "Good work" muahahha

so far i love tuesday power pump, wednesday & Friday pilates. kick boxing is making me sweat but the sequence is a bit tiring. i rather those just kick and punch but no need to follow the pattern.shall continue to record my workout

Oct2010- workout

wednesday (6/10) massage
Thursday (7/10) - treadmill 25 mins + steam bath
Friday (8/10) - pilates ( 1 hour)

Tuesday(12/10) - Hi-Lo (1/2 hour), treadmill 25 mins + steam bath
Wednesday (13/10) - pilates (1 hr)
Friday (15/10) - treadmill 25 mins + pilates (1 hr)

Monday (18/10) - Stretch Fit (1 hr) +steam bath
Tuesday (19/10) - Treadmill 20 mins + Stretch fit (1 hr)
Wednesday(20/10) - Pilates (1 hr)
Thursday (21/10) - Kick boxing (survived 30 mins) + steam bath
Friday(22/10) - pilates (1 hr) - natalie

Monday (25/10) - yoga (1 1/2 hr) - helen
Tuesday(26/10) - power pump (1 hr) + steam bath
wednesday(27/10) - pilates (1 hr)
Thursday (28/10)- swimming + steam bath (forgot to bring shoes)
Friday(29/10)

Nov
Tuesday (2/11) - power pump(1 hr)
Wednesday (3/11) - pilates (1 hr)
Thursday (4/11) - kickboxing (1 hr)

Tuesday (9/11) - power pump(1hr)
Wednesday(10/11)- pilates
thurs(11/11)- kb
fri(12/11)- pilates

monday (15/11)-treadmill+steam bath
tues(16/11)-ppump
thur(18/11)- kickboxing

Wed(24/11) - pilates
thu(25/11)-kick boxing
fri(26/11)-pilates

mon(29/11) - treadmill+steam bath
tue(30/11) - power pump

Dec 2010
Wed(1/12) - pilates

Mon(6/12) - treadmill (30 mins) +steam bath/scrub
Tue(7/12) - power pump
Wed(8/12) - pilates
Th(9/12) - kick boxing
Fri(10/12)- pilates

Mon(13/12) - treadmill(30mins) + steam bath
Tue(14/12) - power pump
Wed(15/12) pilates
Thu(16/12) kick boxing
Fri(17/12) pilates

Teaching Values

Late post. written on 13th Dec

Sometimes when i look at my lil missy, i feel so warm in the heart that my once little baby first born has grown so much now, she is like a small adult who can even join in our adult's conversation.
At times, she seems so mature but most of the times she is still acting like a 3 yo who is absorbing eagerly from what she sees/hears/feels/smells... and i find her classmates whom i met outside sometimes acted exactly like her, all still at the active/full of life stage..

During this stage, we try to instill as much positives values in her as we could. She is taught to have manners, to be polite to elderly, to talk softly and not raise her voice ( well, i din lead by example, as i still raise my voice when im angry evn to maid and she has since talk louder to maid when she is angry too.. sigh.. ), to greet others, to say excuse me when pass gas, to say lots of please and thank you..

Sat, we went to get some xmas gifts for her cousins, while waiting for me to try out some clothes, there is an elder girl who is eating bread, missy keep near to her and keep looking at the girl "hungrily" as if she is waiting for the girl to give her the bread too, then the girl's mummy saw and offer missy the bread, missy never even hesitate and took the bread and ate it. Too late to intervene and no time to intervene, i remind missy to say thank you which she did. Then, LGG and i told missy in future, if anyone offer you food, must first ask mummy's permission, cannot take and eat like that. She nod and said ok.

Yesterday, while we were playing ball and cycling at our home's playground, there came a grandma with her two grandchildren, they are holding packets of bisuits. missy rush to them and keep talking to the elder girl who is about to eat her biscuit. i call out for her, telling her that we are ready to go.. she ignored me. Then, she sits side by side with the grandma and all, waiting to be offered bisuits, expectedly, the grandma offered one piece of biscuit to missy, and i quickly action, by walking forward and tell the grandma that thanks for the bisuits but my girl cant have it. Missy is starting to throw tantrum, refuse to move, the grandma said is ok. I also said is ok. then i pull missy away, she break free of my hand and run away on the road then LGG grab her back, she then started to cry very loud, shouting and cry.. you can imagine the grandma must be thinking wat's up with this mother making the child crying like that for one biscuit?

But i wanted to use this as a lesson to teach her that she is not to accept food offered by others before asking for permission from mummy/daddy, i told her if she wants to eat, mummy/daddy /po po will buy for her. she cried and shout till we reached home and she immedietaly go to her popo.. then we told mum what happened and mum talked to her and she stop her "drama".

Ended the episode. Before sleeping, i asked her to tell me what happened in the playround, she is able to tell me what happened and she is able to say next time cannot take people's food, must ask mummy first and because mummy/daddy/popo will buy for me.. mmm. well, LGG said she may think we will definitely buy for her ? but i feel at least she learnt that she cannot take what other's offered her and must ask parents's permission first and we shall set her expectation on whether to buy for her ornot.. as now i use the excuse of eat to much bisuit will cough and need to see doctor. which she doesn't lile..

Hope lil missy has picked up this lesson and i do hope she wont jst take whatever people offer her next time.

Sunday, December 05, 2010

COmpany Xmas Party- Universal Studio

This year my company Xmas party was at Universal Studio Singapore !..somehow it was expected as this seemed like trend for most company to have their family day at USS.

so, off we went today, missy,LGG & I. I told missy we are going to see puss in the boots. which she has been reading this story with her daddy. as i cant tell her shrek or mascagascar these are not so familiar to her. so she is very excited cos she said "mummy,where is puss in the boots ? we go and see now?" all the way.

It was a Free & Easy trip, we got the tickets before hand and just go on our own into the park. We started off with Merry go round in Madagascar, missy is very curious. but quite unexpected, she cried when we were half way through the merry-go-round, she said she is frightened as the animals we were sitting on will move up and down with the misic while going around. aiyaaa.. so, after the musical round, we jst be cautious with things we play, as missy is not as "adventurous" as we thought she is. she refuse to play most of the things..



Even when we are taking pictures with the cartoon character like panda. hippo.. she is excited when we are in the queue, she said she want to take photos, but when it was out turn, she is chicken out, and refuse to take with the cartoon character, she is scared .. alamak.. so we got to carry her to take the photos..

We ended up, shopping in the shops instead, which she is ok. and we onlywent for 4D show after our lunch. the rest of the games all no no to missy..

well, make me think twice abt my next year plan to go HK disneyland, we may ended up just walking around without playing any of the games..

Some photos before we went USS.. missy is all excited.We took the monorail into the aterfront station where USS is located.


Some photos with the globe.









i bought my betty boops comb this round, last time i didn 't buy it as i feel it was quite x. but this round, i bought it, cos i need a new comb, and it'll be just fun the have betty. hee.. and we got missy a better boops notebook, which she chose herself.




We bought some T-Rex shirts one for didi, one for missy at Jurrasic park gift shop, one for LGG. then, we got some magnets, including betty boops magnet. we got a Universal studios Singapore shirt for mum too. and we bought the woody woodpecker kid's lunch box($8.80), i bought two, one for missy and one for myself, as i want to keep the lunch box for didi next time. and we bought the woody woodpecker pop corn but really so much pop corn inside, eat till we feel sore throat.but the container is darn cute, $14.90 one really slash tourist.





Missy seems happy only when we took photos with woody woodpecker. maybe the character appeared friendly. The 4D show was really good. Thumbs up ! When the character in the show sneezes we have water splashes on our face.. and we can feel the wind when there are wind in the show.. really fantastic.

Overall, it was quite ok. a very outdoor xmas party ever we had.

After the USS, we came back home, missy slept on the way home. and we went to missy's ebglish teacher's wedding, malay wedding, the first we ever attended. really nothing special, the food are cold, not much to eat. and nothing to see. very very plain. maybe it's how malay have their wedding at void deck. not like chinese with fantastic food, fantastic photos, music and all. their is karaeok. so weird.




very tiring day. but we have fun. great experience.

Thursday, December 02, 2010

Didi Waving

Didi now will use his right hand to wave whenever we say "bye bye".. the way he wave is by turning his right hand, left and right..when he is in good mood.. he will lift up his hand and wave up and down.. very funny.. but hey, he already started to link the word "bye bye" with his action --> moving his hands as in wave..this is the part that is pick up slow by missy last time, she refused to wave until abt 1 year old. but she understand it when we told her "bye bye"..

so, another motor skill developed by little bb boy.

Today i stayed at home with didi and mum.. didi is busy playing his toys.. he now is able to sit up from lying down position, but still unstable, so we are still cautios when he do that. he likes to stand up with us holding on his armpit. and smiling happily when we let go of our hands and he is able to stand on his own for 1/2 sec.. haaa

The xmas gift for him, Thomas train Pull along is used by him to bite..not pull.. he loves the string..



didi has got two more new teeth, lower lateral incisor..shall upda6e the tething chart.

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

Work Life

yesterday we celebrated boss's 57th bday in office.. i bought him swensen mango tango ice cream. which is nice and he loves mango.

He had done my appraisal last week. Im happy with his review over my performance eventhough i have been away for 4 months maternity leave. i really enjoyed the flexibility here that my boss gave me. and i can se myself mature into the role that im doing now too. Hopefully, with the version upgrade next year, i can pick up more knowledge for my role.

yesterday also, one bad news for Jen. Her hubby met with an accident. he was on motorcycle and was knocked down by a stupid car who did a wrong turn. his calf bones were fractured, both bones. imagine that. so he will need an operation and prolong mc for sure to recuperate. Shall visit him coming Friday.

Coming Sunday, we shall go to my company's xmas party in Universal Studios. So excited. just hope the weather is good, the company is fun !

Tmw and Friday i will be on leave to clear my final two days for this year as i can only bring fwd 5 days to 2011. after that i shall have to work even weekends until 16th Dec before my long leave. as HA is on leave, i have to backup him. i can foresee how busy i am but im happy too cos that's when i pick up lots of things. when he is around, he likes to handle things and leave me only those not so critical ones.

anyway, we shall welcome 2011, with more work, more challenges and i feel more ready for work now. Happy working !

Xmas gifts

Well, it wont be fun for the kiddos if there are no gifts for xmas right?.. so i've got gift for the two .

missy is so excited of the sight of my Toysrus plastic bag..she keeps asking me is it for her.. i told me, one for her, one for didi. and we can only open the gifts when daddy is home. and she obeyed what i told her.. but keep reminding me, that s her gift..

she is more interested in didi's gift as it looks bigger.

See how didi reacted to his gift ? "mum mum".. he bite it immediately..*shake head*


What did i get them ?

missy -> a bouncy toys story ball. she always like to play ball when we bring her down and other children are playing, she will definetely want to join. some boy don't share and don't let her play, so i thought she will like this gift. Indeed. she loves it. and i have been playing ball pass/throwing with her since.

didi -> Thomas train pull along with music. i thought boys will like choo choo train ? but seems like it attracted missy more cos she is the one keep pulling the train around the house. haa. didi just look on and chase after the sister.

Glad they enjoy their another new toys. :) Merry Xmas my children !

Strawberry Shortcake live

there are many live show during xmas season for children in Spore. if you have time, you can bring ur child to these live show at diferent location, they have sesame street live, barney, care bears, strawberry shortcake, dora, yogi bear etc etc.. usually you need to be there 1 hr before to queue and get chance to go into the front row, which u may be given passes to take photos with your "idol".. this is too troublesome for me.. imagine the waiting time and crowd.. i cant imagine !

However, since they are having strawberry shortcake live at the mall near our home, so i though, ok la.. we shall drop by to have a look, we leave home 1/2 hr before, reach there within 10 mins and already the crowd was amazing.. we stay in second floor to see..so crowded.. the show last abt 30 mins.

We brought didi along too, he is just interested with moving things like when they are dancing but not when they are talking..

missy enjoyed the show as she refused to go home, not until i gave her some cheese bread then she sit on her push car and we brought her home.. haa..

Didi Imitates me

I did not expect didi to start to imitate what we do. As for missy, she started to imitate us and talk like us only after she is like 18 months old, which at that time, i keep saying, monkey see, monkey do.
now, my this little monkey is learning fast.

What happened was that, yesterday while carrying him and talking to him in front of mirror, which i always do that with him, i started to stick out my tongue and look in the mirror, with him looking in the mirror too. When i did that, he turn his head to look at my face, instead of my image in the mirror. then i continue to stick out my tongue and look at him. he then started to stick out his tongue too. Muahaha.. he looks so cute when he do that.. how i wish we can catch that moment in camera.

Then, i carried him away from the mirror, and do the same action again, stick out my tongue, and he again. look at him with so much interest and started to stick out his tongue whenever i did so. everyone was amused by his imitation. so adorable.

lil missy and her San Zhi Jing

We have started to recite the San Zhi Jing since last month i think, after missy showed that she is able to recite poems both for english and chinese after few listening. I must thanj SM for this, as she was exposed to wide vocab & memorising by listening and looking at image since 18th month-old.

We started to just read it and she follows after me.. then after few reading like this, she is able to recite on her own. now, we are at the third page. shall add on as much as we can go.. one way to get missy to familiarise with madarin words and the sounds and also strengthen her memory.

Didi says "mum mum"

lil boy loves food more than his sister at the same age. he cant see us eating, and whenever he se us holding something and our mouth moving, he will dash towards us,, and said "mum mum"..and started making noise until we give him a little of whatever we have.. be it bread, fruits, biscuits, rice..

he will show the satisfied look once we get a tiny bits of what we are eating. Very funny. So, yesterday, while his sister is eating her blueberry, lil didi is very desperate, want to get one also, but the we worried the sister will give the whole blueberry to him which might choke him, so we got to carry him away and give him the bluberry separately, he, surprisingly.. manage to finish 15 blueberry that i have put into his bowl. what an appetite. 9 month-old nia.. aiyoo.. mum said "better work hard, u need to buy lots of food for this one".. muhahaha..

Happy eating my boy !

Didi & his diet

lil boy's appetite is getting bigger these days, he drinks 180ml if milk 4 times a day ( one time in the morning, usually 7am, then one time in the afternoon usually 2-3pm, one time in the evening 7pm -730pm, and one time in the wee hour usually 3-4am)

he will eat his porridge/solid twice a day, onece in the morning, 10 to 11am, another time in the late afternoon 4to 5pm.

the interval between solid/milk usually of 3 hours span.

so, mum and i been cooking porridge for didi and we have since added egg yolk( as adviced by doc to start egg yolk at 9 month-old, then egg white after one) this is to prapare him for MMR jab which contains egg yolk. and monitor for any allergy. so far, we have given didi half of the kampung egg's yolk in the beginning, then added bit by bit to now one egg yolk. he loves it and so far no rashes or allergy. Good.

It is recommended to introduce only one type of new food to our bb at a time. so that we can see how the body react to the food source, if any allergy and stuff. so far my girl no history of allergy and LGG & i boht don't have allergies too. So, unlikely didi will have. but just be careful since he is still below one.


Some guidelines on how to prepare baby food safely

How to prepare baby food safely

Some recipees that we prepared for didi.

1. pureed pumpkin/ mashed potatoes/mashed sweet potatoes
i will just take one potato, remove the skin, wash, then cut into wedges, Steam it (8-10 mins)and then mash it and add a one teaspoon of bb's formula milk and add some warm water. stir the mixture into a smooth mash. Likely for pumpkin, but usually, i did not add formula milk, just mash it after steaming. and bb will eat it like that as pumpkin is sweet and nice. sometimes if i want them to be complete smooth, i just put them into blender and pureer it till it's smooth, no chunks. but i feel little bit of chunky feeling will be nice, as the potatoes are steamed, they already soft, and bb can feel the texture this way.

Nutrients value: pumpkin has high vitamin A & beta-carotene; Sweet potatoes are an excellent source of vitamin A, vitamin C, fibers, beta-carotene, potassium, and calcium, phosphorous and proteins

2. fish/chicken/pork porridge
Im using organic brown rice for didi's porridge. we will use the yellow beans/big bones stock cooked before hand to cook the porridge, slow fire until the porridge turn very mushy.. can use slow cooker too if no time, let it slowly cook, then add in vegetables (vegetables will be boiled first in another pot, after it's soft, we wil take it out, pureed it in blender then add the water to boiled the vegetables as well as the pureed vegetables into the porridge, let them slowly cooked)

Usually, i will add in the fish (we have added threadfin now besides salmon & cod), or pork (the lean pork) or chicken breast meat after the rice started to break into porridge.. and before i add in vegetables. so that the porridge will cooked together with all the nutrients from the meat and soften it. for fish, i will shred it to ensure no bones, i bought from wet market and ask for the boneless portion, and for chicken and pork, i will blender it before i feed didi, cos it's harder for him , who only has 6 teeth to chew on the meat.

so far, we have added carrot, broccoli, wongbak, corn, huaiSan, xiao Bai cai, spinach, mushroom(latest, the big white button mushrooms, i used the fresh mushrooms to boil the soup, then add few slices of the mushrooms and pureed it and add into the porridge, it smells great, didi finishes the whole bowl..)

3. hard boiled egg yolk
just hard boil it and let bb eat the yolk only. as it's not advisebale to feed bb below one egg white, high chances of allergy reaction.

4. fruits- 1/2 apple
we feed fruits to didi now. he had 1/2 an apple daily, we just grind it on the baby food grinder and feed him the juice as well as pulp. he also eat grapes, papaya.

we can also steam pear/apple for baby for change of cooking method according to books, but i feel eat it fresh is much better.

5. plain water
we give didi plain water throughot the day to make sure he is well hydrated. It's a good habit to drink lots of water too. We did that for missy and now she drinks lots of water daily. althoug that does not prevent her from falling sick, but things will be worst if she does not drink lots of water right ? that's what i thought.

so far, i never give didi any ready-made rice cereal like nestle, only tried the rice ceral during his hospital stay, but he din like it. and i feel eventhought the packaging said no preservative blah blah blah.. it will surely have some preservative/colouring/salt..Last time i bough teething biscuit for missy but i find it so sweet. so this round, id did not buy for didi.

and we have stop using the ikan bilis stock cos i read from a baby food book, it contain high sodium, so if possible don't give that much to infant.

lil didi poo twice a day usually, which means his food intake is good. but his weight gain is not much, from 6 months tol 9 months, he is still below 9kg and he does not have thunder thigh. he only remain his sugar-caned arms.. hee..

shall add more variety in time to come..

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Mexican Chicken Burito with Guacamole

well, after my oven gave up on me, i haven been baking .. home cooked food are prepared by maid mostly, unless weekends, i shall do some spaghetti or something.

lately, i came across this blog who always share simple recipes. so i thought i shall give it a try and i'm glad i did.it's sosos nice..and healthy

i have to make the guacamole using avocado + garlic + tomatos+parsley. little bit of salt to taste.

The filling, is using chicken breast meat, i marinate with pepper =five spice powder. or use garlic powder(master food) also can. then stir fry till it brown. i plan of steaming it next time.

i bought the wholemeal wrap from cold storage. and i found the brand called "five loaves" which sell very healthy bread with no preservatives. i bought the wholemeal cinnamon rolls.





so simple to make and yummy to taste. Thumbs up !

Arts @ home

Finally i find time to start the canvas painting for missy. I bought this canvas painting from ELC some months back..

She loves it.. but i find it messy all the shinny paper flying all over.

Shall showcase it at home , her first canvas painting @ 3years 2 months old.




Playing Time @ home

Now, i just leave didi on the playng mat and play his toys.. his sister will always come and "steal" toys away from him..cos she will said, this is mine, didi small small cannot play... so i started to buy new toys for didi instead and for missy too, so she will then leave the toys meant for didi to him...like the cookie monster is for didi and hers is Elmo..i still feel the need to supervise them while they are playing their toys to prevent any injury as lil missy is still youn to know that pulling away a toys from her brother may cause him to fall or injure him..

lil didi is enjoying his toys.. which he enjoys tasting them..now he will insist on toys he wants to play..i mean taste..if we take it away, he will make noise..another stubborn one




see how the brother is pulling the sister's hair again.. it happens all the time..



some peaceful playing time..



we are staying at home on SUnday.. i wanted to go many placed but lazy bonesss.. cant move..we will go to Universal Studio next weekend, thus, shalll safe my energy for that !

Santa Claus is coming to town ...

I love the atmosphere of Xmas.. cos it's so red much decoration and it always have gifts around.. make me feel that happiness. Im toying with the idea of buying a small xmas tree at home.. but LGG objected .. sigh, he said only christian should get xmas tree.. well, for me im not restricted by religion in festive celebration, i can buy ketupat cos hari raya.. i can buy muruku when deepavali.. it's just to enjoy the festive atmosphere.. we are living in multi racial society.. we should appreciate other's religion's celebration.. well, thought abt it, if i get one, didi may grab all deco from the tree? mm.. k some years later..

On our way to SM class last week, missy was attracted by the Xmas trees in the hall of International Plaza.. she keep taking the presents as if they are for her.. so cute





Even in class, we started to do activities involving xmas ..




Hopefully, we can make it to the orchard to see the xmas light up before we start our long break.. Merry Xmas !

Friday, November 19, 2010

Lil brother @ 9 month-old



my lil boy is now 9 month-old.. how time flies and he is just 3 months away from being one-year old.. oh.. dear what cake should i buy for him?!?

Today i was on leave to bring lil boy for his 9th month-old development assessment. He is tested for hearing, motor skill like standing, crawling, holding things, eyes movement, etc.. he is doing well so far.

his weight is now 8.9kg @ 75% percentile for his age group, 70cm tall -50%, with head circumference @ 46cm -75% . he is still doing commando crawl,not on fours yet..and not able to pull himself to stand up by holding on his cot frame.

comparing to lil missy, she was @ 9.7kg -90%, 72cm-75%, and lil missy already crawling very freely at home and i started doing swimming session with her at home.

i wonder will this be the difference between girl/boy or breastfed /formula fed baby ? mm..

anyway, so long lil boy's developemt is within his age group's range i guess should be fine. just that comparing to his sister, he is slightly slower in gross motor skill.

but we observed that his appetite is much better than his sister's now, he can chew food much better, apple (juice + pulp), bread (missy never had bread till 1 year plus), porride (missy's porridge was being pureed will 1 year plus)..

lil boy is very cheerful and he seem to be attached to me more than others, i guess partly cos i breasfed him ? tt's what i read online.. haa..

Just hope lil boy will grow up healthily and happily:)

Photos with the two cheeky Ongs

Didi now started to show his preference for people, things, food. he will also started to "fight" for toys with his sister. The sister will play her toys.. lilt brother will crawl to her toys and try to get "involved" in her game.. but the sister said "no no.." *imitating us* " u r small boy cannot play" but didi insisted that he is "old" enough to play the toy such as blocks..and try to grab one.. the sister will then sweep all the blocks to one corner.. and raise her voice "NO, you cannot play".. the didi seeing his target being removed.. will started to make complaint voice.. then make noise..then we have to get "involved" to intevene.. to carry the didi away..so.. very soon, the two will be fighting for toys.. for real one...

the two together, didi likes to pull the sister's hair..*shake head*


lil missy is buddy-buddy with her lil bro..



i love bathing photos.. see how didi grow..he still love bathing time..and looks funny when his hair is messy..


lil missy always like to disturb didi.. likes to touch his backside and tell me to take photo..*eyes rolling*



Happy enjoying the days when the two are still innocently cute..haaa..